Wormwood said:
I'll try to respond briefly to your comments, Barrd.
1. Thanks for giving me the benefit of doubt and the apology. I mean it.
2. Perhaps it would help if you quoted the verses you think prohibit 1 Tim. 2 from what it appears to mean. I personally do not see any conflict with other verses in the Bible.
I'm sure that you know that the Bible is chuck full of women that were chosen by God for various reasons. My favorite, of course, is the lady I was named for...Deborah.
Deborah was no meek, quiet little "housewife". No, sir. She was a warrior! Israel's brave captain, Barak, would not go out to face Sisera without this strong leader. She judged Israel...I'm sure you know her story. And of course, Deb's story would not be complete without Jael...another strong woman. Her husband had ties with the Canaanites, it seems, and so Sisera saw their encampment as the perfect place to run to after Deborah and Barak had routed his army of chariots...with a little help from God, of course.
He couldn't have been more wrong. Jael lured him to sleep with some milk and a smile, and she drove a tent stake through his head.
These are just a couple of the ladies of the OT. There are many, many more, I'm sure you know. Rahab. Esther. Naomi and her daughter in law, Ruth. Hulda. Miriam.
Then there are the gals of the New Testament.
Jesus never once told some woman that she ought to keep her mouth shut. He spoke to them face to face, just as He spoke to the men. I've often wondered about that, since He moved about in a heavily male-dominated society...and yet nobody ever called Him on His dealings with women.
Did you know that He had female disciples? I'm sure you did. Joanna, Suzanna, et. al. Mary of Magdala, of course. Why do you suppose that, for 2000 years, people have thought that she was a prostitute? Even though Jesus cast seven demons out of her...and we are not told just what sort of demons these were...she is still seen as being somehow...unclean. Paul, bless him, can stand by and watch Stephen be stoned to death...he can even arrest and kill Christians himself...but Jesus knocks him down and blinds him, and people forget all about his violent past...as, of course, they should, but that isn't the point. Why is Mary, who quite possibly was not a prostitute at all, still seen as somehow, dirty, while Paul, the murderer, is clean? Same goes for the woman taken in adultery, and the Samaritan woman at the well. We know the Samaritan woman went on to tell everyone about Jesus. And there is the lady who had truly been a prostitute, who washed his feet with her tears and dried them with her hair. And Jesus said that what she had done would be remembered always. There were many, many more ladies in Jesus' life. I personally do not believe that most of these gals went quietly back to their old lives once they had met Jesus, do you?
There were 120 people in the Upper Room on the Day of Pentecost. Do you honestly think they were all men? What about the gals I mentioned earlier...Joanna, Suzanna, etc? Don't you think they were there? They had been with Him from the beginning...even when the men bolted, the girls stood with Him, even at the cross, where John was the only guy.
And then, of course, there are the ladies of Romans 16.
There is just too much Biblical evidence that women did, indeed, lead, and instruct, men...chosen as God wills, not as men...or women either...will.
I would advise as Gameliel did, long ago. If this is not from God, relax..it'll die all by itself, without any help from you.
But if it is...do you truly wish to be found fighting against God, Himself?
3. I didn't say being a woman was like being a homosexual. Where are you getting this? I have said multiple times that I am not comparing a woman teaching with homosexuality. However, the Biblical exegesis of one is very similar to the other. My point is that the arguments you are using in your contention for women teaching is the exact same argumentation used by homosexuals to validate their lifestyle. To be very clear, I am comparing your hermeneutics to homosexual hermeneutics...that is all. Please assume that from now on if I make any comparison between the two. I assure you I am talking only about how the two groups interpret the Bible and am not comparing the acts of a woman teaching with homosexuality.
Relax, WW. Women are the last minority, or so it seems. I have a black friend who gets absolutely furious at the way people compare the struggle for gay rights with the struggle for black equality...and she is quite right. She also gets irate when someone compares women to homosexuals, and I agree with her. Yes, gays try to board the feminist wagon...of course they do! You said that homosexuals also accuse you of having bigotry against them in your heart, or at least, that is what I understood you to be saying.
But it isn't you or I that has forbidden homosexuality...it is God that calls their relationships "abomination".
God never said an;y such thing about women. Homosexuals may try to use the same logic...but they can't, because what they are is not normal and natural, the way they try to convince us that it is. It is a perversion of the natural sex drive, just like any other perversion. And I'm pretty sure you know that.
There is nothing wrong or perverted about being a woman. We have every right and reason to fight against sexist bigotry, where ever we find it. There is a very good reason why a gay person should not occupy the pulpit, or serve in any other capacity in the church...at least unless and until he repents of his sin and puts it away from him. I'll be darned if I'm going to repent of being a woman, when there is no sin in it. The homosexual says that God made him that way. If he means that he was born with original sin, then I"d have to agree...but that isn't what he means, and I think we know that. I can honestly say that God made me a woman. I was truly born female. if someone has a problem with me because my equipment is different than his, he needs to take it up with God, Who created us both...
Meantime, I will maintain that God loves His daughters just as much as He loves His sons, and puts no difference between them. God never intended His daughters to keep their mouths shut...if He did, He wouldn't have given us such beautiful voices...
4. Yes, I would estimate that blog is about 20 pages long....give or take a few.. You wanted me to read it because it explained your views and why you reject the natural reading of the text, correct?
I only wanted you to get a feel for the atmosphere in Ephesus. There is no way the people who belonged to the Cult of Diana were going to sit still while the Christian church took over their town. Of course, the women were going to try to infiltrate the new church. In their place, that is exactly what I would do, myself. (When you study law, one of the most important things you learn is to anticipate your opponent.) I would dress down, to look more like the women who were already part of the new church, and I'd get in there and learn as much about them as I could before I made my move. After a bit, I'd start "converting" my sisters...and young Timothy would be delighted to see the church growing.
Of course, my ultimate goal would be to bring these people under the authority of my gal, Diana...
I know you're going to hate me for saying this, WW....but the truth is that a trusting young man is no match for a beautiful, clever woman. He might be able to handle those gals who dressed modestly, and lived meek, sheltered lives...but when a beautiful, strong, and intelligent woman comes along...even to this day, it is the same. Remember, I raised three sons.
And four daughters... Without Paul's wise counsel, those women would have taken Timothy's new church away from him before he knew what was happening. They would have trained him like a puppy... Even the most devout Christian man, in his 20s and 30s, is no challenge to a truly determined woman with both beauty and brains on her side...
5. I don't know what you are getting at with the background statements. Of course we should understand the historical background. However, there is nothing in this text to suggest that Paul was referring to a particular problem in this congregation with a certain woman and he only made these remarks because these serious women who liked to cut themselves and beat up the man-folk decided to be preachers in the local church. Paul gives no such indication nor do we know this was the specific case in the Ephesus church. You are creating a reality in this particular church to dismiss a biblical command.
Since this is the only congregation that gets this particular warning, I think it is fair to assume that he was addressing a particular problem in that community. And the problem involving female authority...well, there is that beautiful Temple full of beautiful young priestesses...not to mention a very lucrative business. No, WW...Diana wasn't going down without a fight.
6. What are you talking about? I was quoting you with the term "simple housewife." So I am sexist for quoting you? The reference to "child" was talking about my own children being able to read and understand the Bible and how they would respond to me if I were to have them read this text. Let's not twist my words and play the victim game. I never called you simple or a housewife. I was referring to your statements with your terminology and was essentially saying, "if a simple housewife or child can understand it, why do you need a 20 page blog filled with history and Greek to explain why the verses do not mean anything..."
What I actually said was:
"I am quite convinced that the Bible was never intended for scholars, but for average, every day folks. Fishermen, carpenters, tent-makers...and women, WW. Simple little housewives and mothers...like me."
Yes, I see I did use the term "simple little housewives and mothers" in this post. I don't usually. I certainly was not implying anything about "cranial capacity", however. My IQ has been tested, although not recently...and I assure you, I have nothing to be ashamed of in that regard.
Actually, I do not need a 20 page blog...or a scholar...or anything else to defend my position here. It is my firm belief that Jesus, Himself, defends it, all through the Bible. We women are the equals of our brothers in all things. One day, perhaps I will talk to you about the submission of women to their husbands at home...but that is another debate for another thread...
7. There are lots of words only used once or twice in the NT. We can speculate about maybe why such a word is used, but we shouldn't allow that speculation to create new definitions and dismiss commands..
It's that idea of "usurping" authority that is not found anywhere else. This, more than anything, suggests to me someone coming in from outside, trying to take what does not belong to them. I do not believe it was directed at Christian wives and mothers, but rather at those priestesses from the Temple of Diana.
8. Actually, I would prefer if the "housewife" and others who do not know Greek leave the Strongs concordances alone. I have seen people do more damage with a handful of conjecture and a Greek concordance than it's worth. Suddenly people who don't know Greek start to create new doctrines and discount translations put together by dozens of scholars on account of their concordance and Greek dictionary.
Sorry. My son has always had his cardboard and paper Strong's. Mine came along when I downloaded my E-Sword...a program I would not be witihout.
9. Of course I don't believe your English Bible is inferior. You are the one using Greek to suggest Paul is really only talking about abusive women who a usurping authority, not me. I am fine with the English versions. I think they very clearly communicate the verses and they say nothing of "that woman" or "the woman" or "exercise domineering authority" or, "I do not permit currently a woman...." and so forth as you have been arguing. I am just showing why the English translations we have are right and how this blogger is wrong in how these verses COULD or should "literally" be understood.
Obviously, we are not going to have a meeting of the minds, here. I have said that I believe Paul was addressing a problem peculiar to Ephesus, and one we had already seen in Acts.
Act 19:24 For a certain man named Demetrius, a silversmith, which made silver shrines for Diana, brought no small gain unto the craftsmen;
Act 19:25 Whom he called together with the workmen of like occupation, and said, Sirs, ye know that by this craft we have our wealth.
Act 19:26 Moreover ye see and hear, that not alone at Ephesus, but almost throughout all Asia, this Paul hath persuaded and turned away much people, saying that they be no gods, which are made with hands:
Act 19:27 So that not only this our craft is in danger to be set at nought; but also that the temple of the great goddess Diana should be despised, and her magnificence should be destroyed, whom all Asia and the world worshippeth.
Act 19:28 And when they heard these sayings, they were full of wrath, and cried out, saying, Great is Diana of the Ephesians.
There is more to this story. Bottom line...Diana's followers were not about to take this new Christianity lying down. And they let Paul know it, in no uncertain terms.
10. Since when did I say you needed a fancy theology degree to exegete Scripture. I am not the one pointing to bloggers who use Greek and historical backgrounds as rationale for saying Paul actually means the opposite of what he appears to be saying. Remember, I am the one arguing for the simple reading of the text. You are the one calling in Greek and so forth to prove we don't have to obey Paul.
Paul means exactly what he is saying. In Ephesus, he does not suffer a woman to usurp authority over the men.
And he had very good reason for saying it.
But we do not live in Ephesus, and the Greek gods and goddesses...including the great Diana of the Ephesians...have gone the way of history.
And if we do not stop this silly squabbling over non-issues like gender roles...we could very well follow them.
11. I am not being an intellectual snob. I am saying that you are allowing some random guy on the Internet with a keyboard to cause you to ignore clear passages in the NT. Furthermore, you were criticizing me for not reading the blog out of some apparent unwillingness to learn. And you seem more eager to accept the Greek musings of a guy who has a finance degree to a group of PhDs who have studied one particular Greek word in 13 centuries of documents. So I wonder....why would this be? Certainly it wouldn't have anything to do with the blogger coming to conclusions that you have already deemed to be truth...could it?
LOL...you got me on this one. I had long ago decided, based on what I have read in my own Bible, that the truth is that Paul did not mean this instruction for everyone through all time, but for a particular problem in a particular place at a particular time. This guy just happens to agree with me.
I don't know how many times I must say it...I am not a scholar. I do not know or care about men like Moo or Mounce, or Hodgkins, or any of the rest of them...let them argue it out among themselves. I am not one bit impressed with all their differing opinions on whatever. I am quite convinced that we can find all these answers for ourselves...right there in our own Bibles. All we have to do is open our minds...and let the Holy Spirit guide us. I believe that is what I am doing, WW.
As for me and my house....we will serve the Lord.
12. I Think it's great that you have accomplished so much. Furthermore, I think it's awesome that the Lord intervened and spared your life. Again, Please to not hear my argument for women not teaching in the assembly based on these passages with the idea that women shouldn't vote, work or are not precious to God. Far from it. This has nothing to do with value or ability. Nor does it have anything to do with women working, providing for themselves or their ability. This only relates to the local church gathering and the marriage relationship.
I told you those things to tell you that I am a strong woman. Trust me, those first few years after my David was taken from us by a drunk driver were horrible years. I learned what it was like to stand in line at a food bank, and how to gracefully accept other people's cast off clothing...something I had never done before. I learned what poverty is really like, WW. There was a short space of time when we had to live with friends...because I couldn't even keep a roof over our heads. Today, my youngest son and I are discussing selling the house I am currently living in and buying a nicer house, closer to his job. I haven't decided yet...but I am tempted. I may decide to go along with him...he wants that house so badly. He is, after all, the night manager at the largest store in this town...not bad for a kid who left school to help his Mom after his Dad died...
Several years ago, I was a member of a typical Baptist church...not so much because I believe everything they believe, but because the church is close to my home, and because several of the members were already friends. I was asked to join the choir, which I enthusiastically did. I was happy there for several years...and then our pastor left us.
Our new pastor decided that, since Christmas fell on a Sunday that year, he would close the church.
My little group was devastated. Every year, we got together and made a huge Christmas dinner for the poor in our community. We bought gifts for the kids. And every year, our banquet was a success.
So, we decided to start our own little home church. It has been a beautiful experience for all of us, as we minister to one another. Each one of us feels as if he or she has grown in our Christian walk...and we are closer to God than ever. There is so much love between our families that we have nicknamed our little church "Love Inc."
As I have told you, every couple of months or so, it comes to my turn to lead our service. I spend a lot of time, preparing my house, and myself, for my turn. Like the rest of my brothers and sisters, I am good at what I do.
Do you really think I am disobeying my Lord and my God by doing this, WW? I'm not asking you to judge me...God will do that, in His Own time. I am curious as to your opinion.