All of us my friend believe that we see things better than others or we would not stay where we are:
"Every way of a man is right in his own eyes: but the LORD pondereth the hearts." Prov 21:2
God does show me things as He surely also shows you things. Hopefully we both pray that God will be guiding our tongues to doing a better job when we do speak or to remain silent when that is His will for us in a situation.
"To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven:" Ecc 3:1
"... a time to keep silence, and a time to speak;" Ecc 3:7
"Then said I, Ah, Lord GOD! behold, I cannot speak: for I am a child.
But the LORD said unto me, Say not, I am a child: for thou shalt go to all that I shall send thee, and whatsoever I command thee thou shalt speak." Jerem 1:6-7
When I open my mouth without having talked to God first, I open my own way to danger before God. Truly, I have erred at times in this, but I am regularly asking God for help. Will you also pray for me in this respect?