Eph 1:11-14....ESV
“In him we have obtained an inheritance, having been predestined according to the purpose of him who works all things according to the counsel of his will, so that we who were the first to hope in Christ might be to the praise of his glory. In him you also, when you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation, and believed in him, were sealed with the promised Holy Spirit, who is the guarantee of our inheritance until we acquire possession of it, to the praise of his glory.”
Do you see that word “predestined”? It means something that is planned to take place in the future.
The “sealing with Holy Spirit” was a “guarantee” of their choosing UNTIL they “acquired the possession of it”....so the “sealing” or choosing comes first, but being “born again” i.e. leaving the body of flesh behind and acquiring a new spiritual body that can dwell in the presence of God in the heavenly realm, is what has to happen. Paul said that this happens at their resurrection, which does not take place until Christ’s return. In order to resurrected, one has to be dead.
1 Thess 4:15-17...
“For this we declare to you by a word from the Lord, that we who are alive, who are left until the coming of the Lord, will not precede those who have fallen asleep. For the Lord himself will descend from heaven with a cry of command, with the voice of an archangel, and with the sound of the trumpet of God. And the dead in Christ will rise first. Then we who are alive, who are left, will be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air, and so we will always be with the Lord.”
You cannot be “born again” in the flesh.....you can be chosen for heavenly life whilst still in the flesh, but that life does not come about until “the coming of the Lord”......you can be chosen, and the holy spirit identifies the ones whom God has chosen as “firstfruits”, so they anticipate their role in heaven, (Rev 14:1-5) but if you think it has already happened, you are mistaken. “Predestined” not is not “born again”.....it is a sealing that comes from God, but is between God and that individual. Not all Christians are heaven bound because God did not create humans to go to heaven...he created us to live right here in paradise on earth, forever.
Who said all Christians have to go to heaven to be saved? The Revelation has God’s purpose fulfilled as he restores all that we lost in the beginning. (Re 21:2-3) He is going to be with “mankind” and he is going to give us back what we never got to enjoy because of Adam.
That is the big picture....all you have is a few dead pixels floating around Jesus......who was just one of many faithful ones mentioned in the Scriptures. He was God’s son, but he was also God’s holy servant. (Acts 4:27) Is God his own servant?
For goodness sake, do some homework....