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[iLove]

Hi all, Im new here. I am looking for prayer. I feel I always get attacked for doing the responsible thing. I am married, she is mostly very sweet but gets mad and says hateful things. Im always trying to help people but seems to come back and bite me in the face. I feel its a one sided relationship. Im always looking for attention and she goes to her smoking room. Im a caregiver and shes an engineer and Im the one that pays all the bills. This makes me feel Im all alone in this marriage. I feel that I get taken advantage by everyone because I have no friends really and am an easy target. I wish a had more support through the sad times about all this.

Thank you everyone.

 

[Jane_Doe22]

*hugs and prayers*
Would the two of you be interested in marriage counseling?
Or just counseling for yourself?

 

[iLove]

*hugs and prayers*
Would the two of you be interested in marriage counseling?
Or just counseling for yourself?

She would say no. Its a possibility for me tho, please give me the info.

 

[Prayer Warrior]

Hi all, Im new here. I am looking for prayer. I feel I always get attacked for doing the responsible thing. I am married, she is mostly very sweet but gets mad and says hateful things. Im always trying to help people but seems to come back and bite me in the face. I feel its a one sided relationship. Im always looking for attention and she goes to her smoking room. Im a caregiver and shes an engineer and Im the one that pays all the bills. This makes me feel Im all alone in this marriage. I feel that I get taken advantage by everyone because I have no friends really and am an easy target. I wish a had more support through the sad times about all this.

Thank you everyone.

Hi, iLove. Welcome to the forum!

I pray that you and your wife will be drawn to Jesus and to each other in His love! Also, I pray that you will know how much He loves you and find true fellowship with other Christians who love one another.

Blessings!

 

[Jane_Doe22]

She would say no. Its a possibility for me tho, please give me the info.

I was simply suggesting counseling for yourself then. I myself went through counseling and it made a world of difference - - suddenly having the right tools to unravel problems I'd been wrestling with for years.

 

[amadeus]

@iLove
Praying for you and your situation!

 

[iLove]

I was simply suggesting counseling for yourself then. I myself went through counseling and it made a world of difference - - suddenly having the right tools to unravel problems I'd been wrestling with for years.

Ahh yes. I been considering it for many issues.

Thank you Jane_doe22

 

[Angelina]

Praying for you and your situation @iLove. May God bless you and keep you in his shadow and in his shelter xox

 

[quietthinker]

Hi all, Im new here. I am looking for prayer. I feel I always get attacked for doing the responsible thing. I am married, she is mostly very sweet but gets mad and says hateful things. Im always trying to help people but seems to come back and bite me in the face. I feel its a one sided relationship. Im always looking for attention and she goes to her smoking room. Im a caregiver and shes an engineer and Im the one that pays all the bills. This makes me feel Im all alone in this marriage. I feel that I get taken advantage by everyone because I have no friends really and am an easy target. I wish a had more support through the sad times about all this.

Thank you everyone.

Get to understand Codependency iLove. You'll find information on line.

 

[bbyrd009]

Get to understand Codependency iLove. You'll find information on line.

very, yes