It’s important to be cognizant about the way others feel, especially when it comes to how our words affect people. Complimenting someone about their appearance, especially when the compliment is sincere and friendly, can really brighten their day. From time to time I get positive remarks about the appearance of my eyes: They are crystal blue, the shape upturned, and the size wide and sort of large. And there isn’t a shortage of people who fail to notice. Months ago while checking out at Wendy’s, the cashier (obviously an LGBT guy but that is okay) told me I had beautiful eyes. A woman at the gas station store, where I go to buy lottery tickets every week, made the same kind and uplifting remark. And just the other week a teller at Chase Bank smiled and asked me if they are real, perhaps feelings disbelief that a guy’s eyes could look so perfect.
I always love hearing compliments. Who doesn’t? It’s human nature to want to feel positive about your good qualities. But what I dislike is when people are mean, critical beyond reasonable standards, and make bad remarks about me. Here I am not speaking about mild constructive criticism intended to help; instead I am talking about derisive, insensitive criticisms that put me down and make me feel horrible.
Last night was a prime example of me getting criticized in a very demeaning way that hurt my feelings. The criticism was so bad, so unfair, and so disproportionate that it pushed appropriate boundaries way too far. It was to the point where criticism ceased being anything resembling criticism; I was insulted, and my feelings were hurt.
As I laid down to go to sleep, God took me on a trip where he asked various residents in heaven if they wanted to lay down with me. All of them were rude and said no, he is too ugly. It happened repeatedly, again and again, the same answer occurring: “HE IS TOO UGLY.” These angelic heaven citizens were basically saying my appearance was so grotesque to the point where they don’t even want to go near me.
I am appalled by God’s conduct towards me. He said the reason why he did it because of a certain dating/marriage/relationship issue that I don’t want to elaborate on this forum. God’s remarks that followed hurt my feelings even worse. He said I must accept that I’m ugly (and accept something else that would ruin my life) or else he will refuse to make good on the full extent of the financial miracle he promised me will happen next February. In other words, God is asking me to put myself down, tell myself how ugly I am, and marry someone who makes me feel worthless and inferior and who will cause lifelong psychological suffering, or I’m not worthy of the full extent of his long-promised financial miracle that will occur two months from now.
Please pray and ask God to apologize for his extremely unfair criticism of me. Also, it isn’t right to deny someone the full extent of a long-promised financial miracle just because I refuse to put myself down and call myself ugly (as well as that other thing that I don't wan to talk about). I’m not ugly: I just need to lose weight and find other ways to improve my appearance. Also, I want God to realize that comments like what I experienced last night hurt my feelings. Please pray and ask God to be more sensitive to me.
I always love hearing compliments. Who doesn’t? It’s human nature to want to feel positive about your good qualities. But what I dislike is when people are mean, critical beyond reasonable standards, and make bad remarks about me. Here I am not speaking about mild constructive criticism intended to help; instead I am talking about derisive, insensitive criticisms that put me down and make me feel horrible.
Last night was a prime example of me getting criticized in a very demeaning way that hurt my feelings. The criticism was so bad, so unfair, and so disproportionate that it pushed appropriate boundaries way too far. It was to the point where criticism ceased being anything resembling criticism; I was insulted, and my feelings were hurt.
As I laid down to go to sleep, God took me on a trip where he asked various residents in heaven if they wanted to lay down with me. All of them were rude and said no, he is too ugly. It happened repeatedly, again and again, the same answer occurring: “HE IS TOO UGLY.” These angelic heaven citizens were basically saying my appearance was so grotesque to the point where they don’t even want to go near me.
I am appalled by God’s conduct towards me. He said the reason why he did it because of a certain dating/marriage/relationship issue that I don’t want to elaborate on this forum. God’s remarks that followed hurt my feelings even worse. He said I must accept that I’m ugly (and accept something else that would ruin my life) or else he will refuse to make good on the full extent of the financial miracle he promised me will happen next February. In other words, God is asking me to put myself down, tell myself how ugly I am, and marry someone who makes me feel worthless and inferior and who will cause lifelong psychological suffering, or I’m not worthy of the full extent of his long-promised financial miracle that will occur two months from now.
Please pray and ask God to apologize for his extremely unfair criticism of me. Also, it isn’t right to deny someone the full extent of a long-promised financial miracle just because I refuse to put myself down and call myself ugly (as well as that other thing that I don't wan to talk about). I’m not ugly: I just need to lose weight and find other ways to improve my appearance. Also, I want God to realize that comments like what I experienced last night hurt my feelings. Please pray and ask God to be more sensitive to me.
