Judgemental People

[reformed1689]

Some people say the same thing about some of mine. And what is John's opinion on some of what you post? LOL

Well even if you take out the unbiblical argument of this thread it is hypocritical at minimum because she is judging and being vulgar while screaming "DON'T YOU DARE JUDGE ME!"

 

[Jennifer]

…………. and let "her" not cast a stone back unless "she" is, herself, without sin. LOL

I wasn't casting stones
..he judged me so I judged him back...I hate to imagine me having a stone at that moment..I would probably be in the interrogation room now...

 

[Jennifer]

Well even if you take out the unbiblical argument of this thread it is hypocritical at minimum because she is judging and being vulgar while screaming "DON'T YOU DARE JUDGE ME!"

Hey dude I don't know you. And you still didn't tell me what I said unbiblical..if this thread don't makes sense ..then why you responded to it..maybe it doesn't make sense because you can't understand it because you don't have the mind of Christ ..maybe your mind can't comprehend such things cause you have the mind of a carnal man...

 

[Jennifer]

And, Jen, some anger and animosity is understood.... BUT the plain-out vulgarity has got to be OUT OF THE PICTURE from now on. It needs to stop..... as of five minutes ago.

Right this minute, how about you make yourself a list of all the nasty names you would prefer to call people, and SUBSTITUTE alternate (neutral) words for each one of those names, and use THAT word instead? Try it, OK?

Like I said I was in a bad mood that time so in the heat of the moment I blabbered that outloud ...

 

[reformed1689]

And you still didn't tell me what I said unbiblical..if this thread don't makes sense

Actually I did in my very first response to you.

maybe it doesn't make sense because you can't understand it because you don't have the mind of Christ ..maybe your mind can't comprehend such things cause you have the mind of a carnal man...

This is unnecessary. Not to mention, I'm not the one on here calling people vulgar names. That would be you.

 

[Jennifer]

Not to mention, why is it then ok for @Jennifer to call people vulgar names on this forum?

Gee I don't know..maybe because y'all got the rise out of me...

 

[Jennifer]

Actually I did in my very first response to you.

This is unnecessary. Not to mention, I'm not the one on here calling people vulgar names. That would be you.

Then tell me what I said unbiblical...

 

[reformed1689]

Gee I don't know..maybe because y'all got the rise out of me...

Sorry, that's not a justification, that's an excuse.

 

[reformed1689]

Then tell me what I said unbiblical...

The whole post about Jesus said we are to not judge and that if we judge we are in the wrong. That is grossly taken out of context.

I preached about this back in March. Preach the Word

 

[Jay Ross]

@Jennifer some people have their heads in the clouds and because of this they are no earthly use to anyone.

Jesus did say, do not judge others otherwise you will be judged by the same yard stick.

My prayer is that God will continue to draw you, Jennifer, into his loving embrace as you come to know of his love for you as a person who has come to believe in Him.

As for using the common speech of these times, it does help us to express our feelings and frustrations out load. However, the language is self centred, looking at only our needs and it is not outward looking which was how Christ ministered to others. He put Himself in the least place of honour among the people to serve them.

There is much that we all can learn from the personhood of Christ for our daily walk.

May God's love overwhelm you in your ability to serve and walk with Him.

Shalom

 

[Invisibilis]

I am being abused by my family

You say you are being hurt, but not knowing what it is in you that is hurting.
Your answer is that you are being abused, but not knowing what is in you that is abused.

Since you do not know, perhaps it's because there is nothing really in you that can get hurt or abused.

 

[amadeus]

Not really..lol but do I really read anything at all..lol like I said it's hard for me to understand things I read so I have to usually go over the sentences go remember what I read..but I did skin over your posts...so I read a bit...

You are not alone in this inability to understand to grasp something the first time through. I often will read a post here 2 or 3 times trying to understand and then give up still not understanding. Sometimes it may be the writer, but very often, yes, it is me.

 

[Willie T]

Like I said I was in a bad mood that time so in the heat of the moment I blabbered that outloud ...

No, you didn't..... and you know it. Now, let's take a frist step. Let's try to be honest in all we say.

First of all, no matter how you feel when you start typing, in writing and posting a message to a forum, there really is no "heat of the moment." The mere act of typing removes us from conversation and requires us to successfully perform a precise and detailed technical function we learned in school. That function requires thinking of words, the formulation of those thoughts into the composition of sentences we then tap out on a keyboard, the capitalization of words, the insertion of punctuation, and the subsequent application of the proper keystroke combinations to enable our computer to transmit our message to the forum.

That is NOT "heat of the moment" stuff. All that takes time; usually no less than three or four minutes. And that is without even doing any proofreading. Plenty of time to think and to cool off...……….. UNLESS you just don't want to do either!

So when you call someone a P___k or tell them to STFU, the words don't "just slip out in the heat of the moment." They were well thought-out over a fairly long time, and they were deliberately placed on a screen to be electronically sent out over the ether waves with the raw, premeditated intent of retaliation. With malice aforethought. (Thankfully, we're not in a court of law.)

So, how about ALL OF US start being truthful about the fact that every single word we put into a post is a word we thoroughly WANTED to be in that post?

 

[Jennifer]

No, you didn't..... and you know it. Now, let's take a frist step. Let's try to be honest in all we say.

First of all, no matter how you feel when you start typing, in writing and posting a message to a forum, there really is no "heat of the moment." The mere act of typing removes us from conversation and requires us to successfully perform a precise and detailed technical function we learned in school. That function requires thinking of words, the formulation of those thoughts into the composition of sentences we then tap out on a keyboard, the capitalization of words, the insertion of punctuation, and the subsequent application of the proper keystroke combinations to enable our computer to transmit our message to the forum.

That is NOT "heat of the moment" stuff. All that takes time; usually no less than three or four minutes. And that is without even doing any proofreading. Plenty of time to think and to cool off...……….. UNLESS you just don't want to do either!

So when you call someone a P___k or tell them to STFU, the words don't "just slip out in the heat of the moment." They were well thought-out over a fairly long time, and they were deliberately placed on a screen to be electronically sent out over the ether waves with the raw, premeditated intent of retaliation. With malice aforethought. (Thankfully, we're not in a court of law.)

So, how about ALL OF US start being truthful about the fact that every single word we put into a post is a word we thoroughly WANTED to be in that post?

Like I said I was pissed off when I read her response to me. I don't care if you don't believe me because only I know how I felt when posting that..and im sure you seen the prom scene on that movie "Carrie'..how the girl became upset because of the blood and how everyone was laughing at her and because she was always teased I guess she had enough and killed everyone in the heat of the moment lol..it was like that in the same way you quickly see flashbacks of your life before you are dying...

 

[Jennifer]

It ain't no damn malice..just pissed off emotions like every human being have when they are upset etc why you still worry about that anyway..I apologise to the person...it seems that person is not even worried about that...so why you so worried about it? Was it directed at you? And I don't need to use any kind of malice.all I have to do is be straight forward...I don't need to decieve people..all I have to do is tell it like it is..

 

[reformed1689]

It ain't no **** malice..just ***** off emotions like every human being have when they are upset etc why you still worry about that anyway..I apologise to the person...it seems that person is not even worried about that...so why you so worried about it? Was it directed at you? I don't need to use any malice..all I need to be is straight forward...I don't need to decieve people..all I have to do is tell it like it is..

And now cursing? This post has been reported. This is ridiculous.

 

[Willie T]

Like I said I was pissed off when I read her response to me. I don't care if you don't believe me because only I know how I felt when posting that..and im sure you seen the prom scene on that movie "Carrie'..how the girl became upset because of the blood and how everyone was laughing at her and because she was always teased I guess she had enough and killed everyone in the heat of the moment lol..it was like that in the same way you quickly see flashbacks of your life before you are dying...

Read my post. I told you I know you were irritated when you BEGAN both of those posts. But, there was all sorts of time that elapsed between then and when you finally punched the SEND button. And during all that time, no one was laughing at you. There were no posts on the screen for you to see as you sat typing your reply. This forum will not let you do both at the same time.

I am trying hard to help you, but you have to QUICKLY begin to take responsibility for the things you, yourself, type. The Mods will only put up with me running interference for you for a limited length of time. And after you push beyond that limit, they will just give you a vacation.

 

[Willie T]

And now cursing? This post has been reported. This is ridiculous.

I'm afraid I have to agree with you. (Maybe she will have learned a little something if she chooses to return..... provided they let her come back.)

 

[FHII]

I got married at age 33. My wife was 35. She had 35 years to do all kinds of stuff, and apparently she did!

I told her I wasn't interested in what she did in the past 35 years, only what she was going to do after she met me.

I know some stuff she did because she voluntarily told me. Never asked about the rest, because I don't care. I only care that she's been a great wife after that.

Nor do I care about anyone elses past after they become a bride. Rest assured my dear Jennifer... your past is as a post.

 

[Enoch111]

Well even if you take out the unbiblical argument of this thread it is hypocritical at minimum because she is judging and being vulgar while screaming "DON'T YOU DARE JUDGE ME!"

Sounds like the deranged Democrats since Trump took office.