First, I am not a Calvinist. I am a Christian and that is the only title I claim. Not even a Protestant. I have read much of Calvin's work, and while admiring it as a whole, he is not my leader.
That being said, I do believe in predestination, and the belief that one's life is not only known, but determined by God.
He does not preprogrammed us to think in a certain way on any topic.
So what determines how we think? Our environment has the biggest say in this, as far as I can see. I am talking about who our parents are, when and where we are born, who our associates are, etc.
We absolutely are not destined to follow in those footsteps. And I hate to get so philosophical about it, but we don't have a lot of control over the starting point.
My point is this... If you grow up in an athiest family environment, how is change going to take place? How would a child growing up with parents and family telling them that there is no God change his mind and go against all that surrounded him?
As we grow up, SOMETHING is programming us. Or are we not at least partially influenced by our environment? I would suggest we are strongly influenced by our environment, and ask what could possibly allow us to break that? What was the spark or the incidence? Who caused it?
Notice the love comes before the call.
I am addressing things out of order, but for a reason. I hope you will allow me to do that. "Love" is mentioned before the call. But does this mean it's a chronological thing? Is this really an order of operations?
Romans 8:28 KJV
And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.
This verse does not say you must FIRST love God, then you will be called. Is this where I can reconcile other verses with Romans 8? Because God picked Jeremiah to carry his message before he was born, and I am assuming that means before Jeremiah loved God. He brought Paul down before he was converted.
So does love always come before the call? No, the call comes first. In the same letter (Romans) Paul noted the faith comes by hearing the word of God, and you can't hear without a preacher.
So you have this "free will". Yet something influenced you to seek out or at least look into this man called Jesus. Who, in your free will, did that? Who started the fire?
Bottom line: .this verse lists love first, but it doesn't say we must love him first... Why... I could even give you a scripture that says that ain't true.
1 John 4:19 KJV
We love him, because he first loved us.
programmed to act and respond in certain ways cannot love. It just obeys.
Robots. I hear always about robots. No, be aren't robots and the Bible never says we are robots. Heck, Robots weren't even around then!
No, we are not robots. But are we sheep?
John 10:27 KJV
My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me:
I can milk this discourse quite a bit. Want me to????
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That includes yourself. You are part of creation but nothing in all creation can take you from God's hand.
I agree most heartedly! If we are called no man-- even us-- can escape.
My view on predestination overall is thus:. It is not something we can claim. There are those who are predestined, but we don't receive that knowledge until we are done.
Predestination is real, God knows what we will do and he declared irlt from the beginning. I see that as God working with me (whom he created) and setting up road blocks and chutes to get me where I am.
So if you want to say from Romans 8:28 that we must first love God before we are called... Fine. ThataThnot whatwthe versevis sayings but I will appease you. But before we love God, aAllthings worked together for good.