So,
@marks
If I may. Let’s apply that logic to this situation in scripture; where the Lord says:
Luke 17:3
“Take heed to yourselves: If thy brother trespass against thee, rebuke him; and
if he repent, forgive him. And if he trespass against thee seven times in a day, and seven times in a day turn again to thee, saying, I repent; thou shalt forgive him.”
So, mark, if I offend against you (hypothetically), and you get angry with me; which response below would convey an apology to you:
1. I am so sorry to have offended you, mark.
2. I have changed my mind regarding my offense to you, mark.
Would you forgive me because I was sorry for offending you?
Or because I changed my mind towards you?