Here Jesus explains the parable.
The seed is the word of God.
In verse 21 you'll see that it took root but it was not firm. We know it was received with joy and that means that the person was saved. Saved persons receive the word with joy. RECEIVED the word with joy. NOT just heard it. It was received.
Then when affliction arises or persecution because of the word received by the person, he IMMEDIATELY FALLS AWAY.
GodsGrace, I struggle with why anyone could believe we can be "unborn" of God. I read both sides. Still, it is not man's goodness that convinces me that Salvation can not be lost but the power of God to sustain it. Is the Spirit not able to maintain those born of God? I am sure you have heard it all before but here it goes:
James 1:18
[18] Of
his own will begat he us with the word of truth, that we should be a kind of firstfruits of his creatures.
Of His own, He begat us with the word of truth. How can truth fail when it is of light? It is lies that fail. It is darkness that fails. Yes, we are called to be of one or the other...but God does it.
John 8:31-43
[31] Then said Jesus to those Jews which believed on him,
If ye continue in my word, then are ye my disciples indeed; [32] And ye shall
know the truth, and the truth shall make you free. [33] They answered him, We be Abraham's seed, and were never in bondage to any man: how sayest thou, Ye shall be made free? [34] Jesus answered them, Verily, verily, I say unto you, Whosoever committeth sin is the servant of sin. [35] And the servant abideth not in the house for ever: but the Son abideth ever.
A servant does not abide in the house for ever:
but a Son abides.
(If a man abide not in me, he is cast forth as a branch, and is withered)
Again, God decides.
[36] If
the Son therefore
shall make you free, ye shall be free indeed. [37] I know that ye are Abraham's seed; but ye seek to kill me, because
my word hath no place in you. ....
Why do ye not understand my speech? even because
ye cannot hear my word.
What is the root?
Isaiah 11:10
[10] And in that day there shall be a
root of Jesse, which shall stand for an ensign of the people; to it shall the Gentiles seek: and his rest shall be glorious.
Isaiah 53:2
[2] For he shall grow up before him as a tender plant, and as
a root out of a dry ground: he hath no form nor comeliness; and when we shall see him, there is no beauty that we should desire him.
You keep saying one can lose salvation.
Again, how can you lose something
you never had?
Matthew 13:21
[21] Yet hath he not root in himself, but dureth for a while: for when tribulation or persecution ariseth because of the word,
by and by he is offended.
Matthew 11:6
[6] And blessed is he , whosoever shall not be offended in me.
Proverbs 12:3
[3] A man shall not be established by wickedness:
but the root of the righteous shall not be moved.
Same as a man which built a house, and
digged deep, and laid the foundation on a rock: the house founded on a rock could not be shaken.
But even God gives us the desire and strength and power to dig.
I get your argument that this relaxed mindset of, I can do whatever I want and still be saved, is not true. There again, I ask how can you lose what you never had?