I know explaining these Scriptures will make no difference since you fancy your own word to be superior to Scripture. However, I'll make a response for the sake of others reading.
You said, "God wasn't made flesh, the Word was." Perhaps you need you read verse 1 again. "In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God and the Word was God." emphasis mine
Yes, the Pharisees accused Jesus of making himself equal with God. Since, by definition, there is nothing greater than God, to make one's self equal with God is to make one's self God. This outrage is in the context of Jesus declaring himself to be "I am." Which clearly is a reference to the name God gave himself to Moses.
As for Phil 2:6, the word being used here for "robbery" is "harpagmo." The word means "to seize with force." The point here is that since he was truly the same "form" as God, his claim on equality with God would not have been considered "robbery" or something forcefully taken. It was his right, but he surrendered it in order to die on our behalf. That is the point. It is a claim of divinity in the clearest sense.
Your "why do you want God to die" comment is manipulative and doesn't deserve a response.
And was not His word with Him in the beginning, its His word that keeps this all together. My son sounds just like me but He is not me, if I gave him teh authorty to sign for me, he would literally be me. God never died on the cross, God cant die, God is spirit.
God has many sons
Joh_1:12 But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name:
but the yare not Him
as Jesus said
Joh 10:34 Jesus answered them, Is it not written in your law, I said, Ye are gods?
Joh 10:35 If he called them gods, unto whom the word of God came, and the scripture cannot be broken;
Joh 10:36 Say ye of him, whom the Father hath sanctified, and sent into the world, Thou blasphemest; because I said, I am the Son of God?
Joh 10:37 If I do not the works of my Father, believe me not.
Joh 10:38 But if I do, though ye believe not me, believe the works: that ye may know, and believe, that the Father is in me, and I in him.
the devil i am sure would love God to die, but that even he himself would no longer exist.