Conditional love can never be God then. Conditional love belongs to man, not God. God is unconditional love. This is why I don't agree with the idea of being worthy of love ONLY if this or that. It's asinine. True love can never be a transaction
I think what Jesus meant by being the way is that he's an example. There's a difference between following Jesus and fanatisicising over him.
I love Jesus. But the fan clubs scare me.
You seem to have ALL YOUR NEGATIVES in the wrong place sir !
Maybe a trip through the word of God through the leading of the Holy Spirit is what you need too.
YOU HAVE SO MUCH BACKWARDS !