No, rather, it is yourself who denies the saying that some do not abide (1 Jn 2:28)
1 John 2:24-29 KJV
24) Let that therefore abide in you, which ye have heard from the beginning. If that which ye have heard from the beginning shall remain in you, ye also shall continue in the Son, and in the Father.
25) And this is the promise that he hath promised us, even eternal life.
26) These things have I written unto you concerning them that seduce you.
27) But the anointing which ye have received of him abideth in you, and ye need not that any man teach you: but as the same anointing teacheth you of all things, and is truth, and is no lie, and even as it hath taught you, ye shall abide in him.
28)
And now, little children, abide in him; that, when he shall appear, we may have confidence, and not be ashamed before him at his coming.
29) If ye know that he is righteous, ye know that every one that doeth righteousness is born of him.
You've assigned the meaning "lose your eternal life" to "be ashamed before Him at His coming", this is correct?
My first question would be to why make that substitution, and why not understand that the redeemed maybe be ashamed when He comes, while still being among the redeemed? Isn't that after all how this reads? It doesn't say, abide in Him, that we he shall appear, we will appear with Him. That we may have confidence that we will have eternal life when He comes.
Here in this same chapter John wrote,
1 John 2:19 KJV
They went out from us, but they were not of us; for if they had been of us, they would no doubt have continued with us: but they went out, that they might be made manifest that they were not all of us.
He's telling us that those who leave were never really "in". "If they had been of us, they would have continued . . ." John is not contradicting himself just minutes later. And in a few more moments he wrote that we are now the children of God, and we don't know what we will be, but we KNOW that when we see Him we will be like Him.
because they don't keep God's commands (1 Jn 3:23,24)
1 John 3:18-24 KJV
18) My little children, let us not love in word, neither in tongue; but in deed and in truth.
19) And hereby we know that we are of the truth, and shall assure our hearts before him.
20) For if our heart condemn us, God is greater than our heart, and knoweth all things.
21) Beloved, if our heart condemn us not, then have we confidence toward God.
22) And whatsoever we ask, we receive of him, because we keep his commandments, and do those things that are pleasing in his sight.
23) And this is his commandment, That we should believe on the name of his Son Jesus Christ, and love one another, as he gave us commandment.
24) And he that keepeth his commandments dwelleth in him, and he in him. And hereby we know that he abideth in us, by the Spirit which he hath given us.
Where is the part about ceasing to keep His commandments and losing eternal life?
Here's a question for you . . . what does it mean here:
20) For if our heart condemn us,
God is greater than our heart, and knoweth all things.
because they're led away by idols (1 Jn 5:21).
1 John 5:19-21 KJV
19)
And we know that we are of God, and the whole world lieth in wickedness.
20)
And we know that the Son of God is come, and hath given us an understanding, that we may know him that is true, and we are in him that is true, even in his Son Jesus Christ. This is the true God, and eternal life.
21) Little children, keep yourselves from idols. Amen.
Keep yourself from Idols, the admonition John gives to close his letter. Where is the part here about losing eternal life? And in particular in relation to the other things he wrote that show it's not going to happen? Losing eternal life, that is.
Much love!