To answer your question directly - I am convinced that the bible is the word of God. I am convinced that it speaks truth. I am not convinced that I have a full understanding on it and that my convictions of scripture are correctly understood, so I am willing to hear others out that disagree with me on secondary issues.
I am striving to be Quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to get angry (Jam 1:19).
I find that by listening - it helps me to see where I am wrong or can grow - or, it further cements my understanding of scripture if their response is weak and mine is strong.
I also find that by hearing people out - more often than not I find that my perception of what they believed was first wrong.
Take the recent example of ceassation. I assumed thought they didn't believe in healing at all. Yet by being willing to listen - I find they do - they just believe that the "sign gift" where someone has a ministry of miraculous healing where they can lay hands on people and they will all be healed ceased with the apostles. I was wrong, and I have learned something by listening.
I once judged Once Saved Always Saved as believing that once you say a prayer of repentance you were saved and you could go on then sinning and still be saved, because Once Saved Always Saved. When I was willing to hear them out and strive to understand why they believe what they believe nothing could be further from what they believe. I was wrong, and I have learned something by listening. I was wrong, and I have learned something by listening.
This doesn't mean that I end up agreeing with OSAS or cessationists. But it does mean that I have a greater understanding of what they believe - and i have also been able to see scripture in a different light in some matters to what I have before.
I could go on with areas in my life where I misunderstood where someone was coming from, and if I was not willing to hear them out - I would still be wallowing in my ignorance.
I have learned that many genuine people are on opposite ends of many debates. One of my favourite teachers (Chuch and Nancy Missler) opposed with each other on OSAS. Martin Luther did an incredible work with the reformation, and I respect and have Lutherans as close friends today, but I disagree with them on infant baptism. Yet I don't discount Martin as being a false teacher, or my friends pastors as being the same.
I am not ready to call anyone who differs on my views with Calvanism vs Arminianism / OSAS vs not / Ceassationists vs Continuists as being false teachers. Rather I believe it is healthy for people to respectfully discuss their differences and hear each other out. Iron sharpens Iron. (Prov 27:17).
However I also believe it is unhealthy and I want to avoid those who want to engage in arguments with others who have a different view. (2 Timothy 2:14)
How do I reconcile the two? For me - I believe the key here is the heart of the people and the discussion. Is it a discussion willing to hear each other out in patience and love - or is it a closed minded discussion and only willing to quarrel, argue and put down?
If I take this to the extreme - I see the latter view going the way of our modern society. No fair debates, stacked panels, promoting censorship, drowning anyone with a different view out with shouting and arguments. No more is this prevalent than what I see with our universities, or organizations such as BLM. How will these people ever learn of their deception if they are not willing to hear out another?
Likewise, how will I be willing to see my mistakes too if I am unwilling to hear others out if I am wrong. I believe as I listen, if someone speaks truth - the Holy Spirit can convict me when I'm wrong and can give me revelation, the same as reading scripture.
Scripture is my foundation. I love it - and for me - it is the only thing that is solid. My understanding of it however has a lot of improvement left and I value the input of others.
I am seeking to find greater understanding of the bible, and I find it's just as healthy to be challenged on what I believe as it is to have people support what I believe. This is why I love the way the early church started, and I love home group settings. It's not one person preaching and all others just listening - it is a place where we can discuss, and ask questions and grow together.
When two or more people are willing to sit down and respectfully discuss issues - we can learn from each other. The alternative is to not listen to any opposing views to our own, which I believe is arrogant and dangerous because it leaves no room for correction, or to otherwise engage in arguments instead.
I am not ready to throw cessationists out as false teachers. From what I can tell, they are not preaching a false gospel message (even if they may be incorrect with their understanding on gifts) - unless you believe that the gospel isn't complete unless one believes that the sign miracles are in effect today and the sign gifts are part of the gospel message?
From my discussions so far I believe that they are very passionate about Christ, and scripture and I value their input if they're willing to have discussions with me.
I hope this helps to explain why I am willing to have conversations with others on these topics and hear them out. :)