I too agree the word Jesus used was the word ANOTHEN.
He then explains to Nicodemus what being born from above means by saying, “Very truly, I tell you, no one can enter the kingdom of God without being born of water and Spirit."
Scripture speaks of two baptisms. One literal that uses water as the element, and the other is spiritual that implements both water and of the Spirit. Note I said “water and of the Spirit” and not water alone or Spirit alone. This is very important to note.
I’ve noticed you’ve underlined the word “water” and not the word “Spirit.” Is this because your church teaches water baptism and not Spirit baptism, or perhaps your church believes water baptism is much more essential for salvation than Spirit baptism?
Why do you suppose Jesus said, “you must be born of water and of the Spirit?”
Because, water and Spirit are essential to get into the kingdom of God. Before continuing, we must first search out the Scriptures to learn how God defines the word “water”,and not as we think it as “H2o.”
Sure enough after searching the Scriptures we find the account about the woman at the well in John 4:7-14. We all know the story so I’ll fast forward to verse 14 where Jesus said: “
But whosoever drinketh of the water that I shall give him shall never thirst; but the water that I shall give him shall be in him a well of water springing up into everlasting life.”
John 7:38 reads: “
He that believeth on me, as the scripture hath said, out of his belly shall flow rivers of living water.”
Romans 10:17 reads: “
Faith cometh by hearing, and hearing by the word of God.”
These verses tell us, the true believers are God’s ambassadors and have the power to go into all the world and proclaim the Gospel of God.
In conclusion, water baptism is NOT essential for salvation as we see also the thief on the cross was not baptize with water, and confirmed by Peter in 2 Peter 3:21, “
not the putting away of the filth of the flesh, but the answer of a good conscience toward God.”
BTW, the word “baptize” means “to wash.” Immediately we sense that “washing” relates to salvation. The washing that God has in view is the “
washing of regeneration” (Titus 3:5), for this is what Jesus did on the cross, to wash away the filthy dirty rotten sins off of our bodies, and become blameless before God.
That which is born of the flesh is flesh; and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit John 3:6.
I hope this helps.
To God Be The Glory