1. Yes god has blessed me with many arrows in my quiver.
2. Many times. I have read pre trib, mid trib, pre wrath, post trib dispy writings, covenantal theology on it and amillenial textbooks on it. I look at many facets before I make my mind up
3. YOu are incorrect in calling 1 Thess 4 the second coming. Here is why:
a) In thess. Jesus descends only to the atmosphere, in Rev. 19 Jesus touches down on earth.
b) The trib period is known as the wrath of God in numerous passages. Hell is never referred as Gods wrath. in 1 Thess. 1:10 we are promised to be delivered from the wrath to come.
c) IN Rev. 19 there is a great crowd in heaven before jesus returns
d) IN REv. 19 the bride (the church ) is in heaven and is ready to wed the Lamb. That means we had to have been taken to heaven and undergo the bema seat judgment of 1 Cor. 3 and puirified. This wedding occurs in heaven and then Jesus returns to earth!
YOu forget that in Rev. there are two resurrections that take place.
Revelation 20
King James Version
20 And I saw an angel come down from heaven, having the key of the bottomless pit and a great chain in his hand.
2 And he laid hold on the dragon, that old serpent, which is the Devil, and Satan, and bound him a thousand years,
3 And cast him into the bottomless pit, and shut him up, and set a seal upon him, that he should deceive the nations no more, till the thousand years should be fulfilled: and after that he must be loosed a little season.
4 And I saw thrones, and they sat upon them, and judgment was given unto them: and I saw the souls of them that were beheaded for the witness of Jesus, and for the word of God, and which had not worshipped the beast, neither his image, neither had received his mark upon their foreheads, or in their hands; and they lived and reigned with Christ a thousand years.
5 But the rest of the dead lived not again until the thousand years were finished. This is the first resurrection.
6 Blessed and holy is he that hath part in the first resurrection: on such the second death hath no power, but they shall be priests of God and of Christ, and shall reign with him a thousand years.
So the last day is not the absolute last day for that is the second resurrection and on them the second death (the lake of fire) has the power over them.
The first resurrection is for the OT and tribulation saints who died from the rapture to the second coming and the establishment of the 1000 year kingdom.
Once again 1 Thess. 1:10 shows that Jesus is delivering us from the wrath to come
And that wrath is defined here:
Revelation 6:15-17
King James Version
15 And the kings of the earth, and the great men, and the rich men, and the chief captains, and the mighty men, and every bondman, and every free man, hid themselves in the dens and in the rocks of the mountains;
16 And said to the mountains and rocks, Fall on us, and hide us from the face of him that sitteth on the throne, and from the wrath of the Lamb:
17 For the great day of his wrath is come; and who shall be able to stand?
I also encourage you to read this fairly short manuscript written by my favorite teacher:
http://www.arielcontent.org/dcs/pdf/mbs039m.pdf
With 1 Thess. 1 declaring we will be delivered from the wrath tro come and other than Gods wrath against sin, the only other thing described directly as the wrath of God being the tribulation, I have become 100% convinced that Scripture teaches a pre-trib rapture. Any time from now till the AC and Israel sign the 7 year treaty!