Being banned from a so called Christian Forum doesn't bother me so much. Although I would like to tell those who do these things how misled they are. Jesus himself reminds us that the Lost and Sinners of the world are those who need his teaching more than the Found. To be Banned from these Forums who claim to be Christian doesn't help the lost at all. I myself have been Banned from several only because of what I believe the Bible really says. I ask this question would Jesus not allow me to give my opinion. Many Atheist are Banned from these forums. Would Jesus turn away from them. I think not but would do as he does which is to save. You will never get one of these lost soles to believe by sending them away. I compare these so called Christians who run these forums to those who killed Jesus. He didn't match up for them, he didn't teach there belief, his teachings were truth, and they couldn't have Him spreading it all around, so they killed Him. I'm thankful that so far here on this Forum I am able to speak my belief. It may not be one you agree with but we can freely discuss and maybe change one anothers mind.
I actually agree that suspension for a time makes more sense with warnings regarding behaviour.
It can often become a competition of who can get who banned, when they are just expressing a point of view, which is any other walk of life people would note and then ignore.
The difficulty in forums is also trolls.
How do you separate out from trolls and people who legitimately express some feelings?
On one site I saw an individual get worked up about an issue and express it to someone who is very provocative.
What this says to everyone, provoke and win, stay silent and let the people who sail close dominate.
So forums can become dominated by certain personalities and to disagree is to be ganged up on and haranged.
Ironically this can become like a hobby cage fight. Some voluntarily get removed to stop going back.
Some also love needling, to see what works. If you are bored it can be fun.
Others are so pompous only they know the right opinion, and you must bow the knee to their wisdom. Little do they realise wisdom is tested by fire of debate and scrutiny. But that would mean there tasty conclusions would fry, so better bully ones way into domination.
I was stupid, and I mean stupid, to get between a victim and the bully. Tends to get oneself in a lot of hassel for no point, or even worse the site owner siding with the bully. The most powerful approach is what Jesus did. Attack positions not people. The people decide which position they are for themselves. God bless you