Yes it says he predestines. I just reject the fatalistic view of predestines. I believe he predestines us to be conformed to his image so please do not tell me I reject scripture..
I am not implying that we are robots. That is the argument you guys always use as if we are all totally programmed. That would imply no real intellegence or will or emotions, just a machine computing what it was programmed to compute.
But take this into consideration, animals are programmed by God, they call it instincts. They are uniquely designed and function exactly how God designed them to: they mate, get food, builds homes, function symbiotically in the vast ecosystem that was also programmed. A bird can fly freely here and there, land on what branch he wants, make a nest where he wants -- but those instincts drive him and are essential for life.
Sin distorted nature somewhat and so we have defects in that system: animals became fearful of man and eachother. Preditor and prey weren't part of that Garden of Eden design. Selfishness, greed, aggressive anger and hate replaced much of what was harmonious. Still that was necessary and part of the plan. The KNOWLEDGE of GOOD AND EVIL already existed before sin. We need to know evil to know and appreciate what good is. We need both to ubderstand and appreciate God.
He designed life and so
in our design there happens to be some programs as well.
Can you get this:
>>Jesus is the AUTHOR OF OUR FAITH.<<
SO
He writes our life story with these signicant key moments scattered among many trivial ones. He allows for us to wander aimlessly, hopelessly, sinning and making all our little puney insignificant choices. But His program is installed and operates unbeknowst to us. He guides us all along through life to influence and make the right decisons. His plan is secure and absolute. Angels watch over us and protect us from anything or anyone _ even oursleves _ that would thwart His perfect plan. So yes, you get to fumble around until you are ready, land on any branch you desire and make a nest in your choice of tree. Then He draws you. At this point, because of your many failed decisions and lessons, your defenses and rebelliousness have been broken down, enabling you to open your door when He knock. You finally surrender your way, you finally realize your way doesn't work - only because He has brought you to this realization. You say, " I opened the door ... it was my choice", but God prepared you and enabled you to do so. He chose you first and sanctified you.
The significant events HE AUTHORS. We still are responsible. As you say, if we were totally programmed, sin could not exist, we would therefore not be guilty.
But we are unable to jumpstart/ ignite the process of sanctification. God chose us, we are the ELECT to be saved through Christ, by grace, through faith.
Faith is a gift, not by works and so what you are implying is that by your free will, you acquire this gift without God.
Think of this: Man left to himself will lead to nothing good and destruction! Look at man before the Flood. Where did his "free will" lead him? Tens of millions were totally wicked - all the time. But God chose 8 to repopulate the world. He found favor in them. But He gave Noah and his family FAITH.
This whole path that leads to your salvation is strategically planned. God prepares us and sometimes it takes a lifetime of lessons to be learned, through many experiences to reach that divine appointment. We are born sinners, bent towards rebelling against God, with a spiritual defect that we can't repair. This defect blinds us to see and so choosing God is something that we are unable to do by ourselves.