Do you believe Jesus brings people back from the dead? If so, do you believe the scripture that says to be absent from the body we are present with Christ? If we are present with Christ, do you think once raised from the dead, we would suddenly get amnesia that we'd been with Christ?
Since I have a completely different understanding of that scripture, I would have to give you a completely different answer.
You see, I do not believe that all Christians are going to heaven. I don't believe that the scriptures tell us that.
There are the "elect" (chosen ones, or Holy Ones) and there are those who are not chosen ones....still faithful Christians but not heaven bound.
Colossians 1:1-4...opens with the words....
"Paul, an apostle of Christ Jesus through God’s will, and Timothy our brother, 2 to the holy ones and faithful brothers in union with Christ at Co·losʹsae:. . . .
"We always thank God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, when we pray for you, 4 since we heard of your faith in Christ Jesus and the love you have for all the holy ones."
So we can see here the "
holy ones" are mentioned separately to the "
faithful brothers in union with Christ".....so only some Christians are chosen to be "saints" or "holy ones"....but not all. Those chosen for heaven have a specific role to play as "kings and priests" (Revelation 20:6) and as such they will need subjects and those who need them to perform their priestly duties.
I see from the Revelation ch 7 that there are two separate groups who are granted salvation, but are also given different assignments....one in heaven and the other on earth.
Angels are told....
"Do not harm the earth or the sea or the trees, until we have sealed the servants of our God on their foreheads.” 4 And I heard the number of the sealed, 144,000, sealed from every tribe of the sons of Israel".
So there are a specific number ordained by God and "sealed" for a specific purpose....a first group....all "Israelites".
Revelation 14 mentions them again and places them in heaven with the Lamb....
"Then I looked, and behold, on Mount Zion stood the Lamb, and with him 144,000 who had his name and his Father's name written on their foreheads." and it says of these ones that they....
"had been redeemed from the earth". . . . ."redeemed from mankind as firstfruits for God and the Lamb, 5 and in their mouth no lie was found, for they are blameless."
So these are the elect...the chosen ones who are "resurrected first" to rule with Jesus in his Kingdom. (Revelation 20:6)
It then goes on to say....Rev 7:9-10....
"After this I looked, and behold, a great multitude that no one could number, from every nation, from all tribes and peoples and languages, standing before the throne and before the Lamb, clothed in white robes, with palm branches in their hands, 10 and crying out with a loud voice, “Salvation belongs to our God who sits on the throne, and to the Lamb!”
So now there is another group, which no man was able to number out of all the nations on earth.
Vs 13-14 identify them...
"Then one of the elders addressed me, saying, “Who are these, clothed in white robes, and from where have they come?” 14 I said to him, “Sir, you know.” And he said to me, “These are the ones coming out of the great tribulation. They have washed their robes and made them white in the blood of the Lamb."
So these ones are saved too, covered by the blood of Christ, but they are said to "come out of the great tribulation" which occurs on earth as a prelude to the end of the present system of things.
I see one group in heaven with the Lamb, and the other group on earth as survivors of that traumatic end to satan's rulership of the world. These, I believe will form the nucleus of the "new earth" ruled over by the "new heavens" that Peter spoke about. (2 Peter 3:13)
Joining them will be those who come back in the general, or second resurrection that Jesus spoke about. (John 5:28-29) Those who go to heaven are resurrected first, and those who will be their subjects are resurrected later.
So as I am not of the elect, I do not expect to have such an experience, but I have no doubt that the elect will.
My belief is that being "born again" is not something that happens in this life....it happens after the chosen one has given up their fleshly body and are "born again" as spirit creatures in order to exist in the heavenly realm. It is a new birth as a completely new creature.
I have a very different take on the whole "going to heaven" thing because it makes no sense to me that God would put us here on earth only to train us for life in heaven.....God already had a large spiritual family in heaven before he created the physical universe. None of them needed training on earth in order to live there.
I therefore see this earth as a new project for God...a new creative venture where creatures with God's attributes would become caretakers of a planet gifted to them by their Creator. He offered them everlasting life on the condition of their obedience.
What a wonderful job! Taking care of all the other creatures and making this whole planet like the garden of Eden.....aren't we drawn to that prospect? Wouldn't you like to live there?
I believe that God created us to enjoy living in such a place forever, but some mistake that for a desire to go to heaven. But going to heaven means leaving this earth, yet everlasting life in a restored paradise on earth is in keeping with God's first purpose.....one he never abandoned. (Isaiah 55:11)
That is how I see it.....