I'm Sick And Tired Of This!!

[April_Rose]

This one person on another website keeps spreading rumors about me!! She says that me and this other member are cheating on our significant other because we're both having an affair and we're just friends for crying out loud!! Geesh does I love you always have to mean romance!?! I could use a little advice on what to do about this guys because it's really starting to tick me off!!

 

[lforrest]

It is best to avoid any appearance of impropriety. Since that isn't possible complain.

 

[April_Rose]

It is best to avoid any appearance of impropriety. Since that isn't possible complain.

Oh that's really helpful! You're making it sound like I'm the problem here but obviously you've never been in my shoes before and know that it truly hurts when people lie about you and spread gossip about you. I was just looking for advice and if you didn't want to help me you didn't have to reply in the first place and make me feel even worse about it.

 

[Hidden In Him]

Agreed. Avoid the appearance of evil. Christians are actually supposed to love one another, which comes as a shock to some. But given that there has always tended to be a spirit of judgmentalism within the body of Christ (Galatians 5:15), best to watch what you say and do in public.

 

[Hidden In Him]

Oh that's really helpful! You're making it sound like I'm the problem here but obviously you've never been in my shoes before and know that it truly hurts when people lie about you and spread gossip about you. I was just looking for advice and if you didn't want to help me you didn't have to reply in the first place and make me feel even worse about it.

LoL. Ma'am, you're even more emotional than I am, and that's saying a lot.

Ease up on Forrest. I know him well enough to tell you he was simply offering you some advice, not judging you.

 

[April_Rose]

Ease up on Forrest. I know him well enough to tell you he was simply offering you some advice, not judging you.

Sorry but that's what it sounded like the way he wrote it.

 

[Grailhunter]

Everything that is going on has everyone's nerves on edge. This is a international forum and you have good Christians here and you have fruit-loops here....you cannot be thin skinned. It does not matter what anybody says....by the way what are you doing this Saturday?

 

[Josho]

This one person on another website keeps spreading rumors about me!! She says that me and this other member are cheating on our significant other because we're both having an affair and we're just friends for crying out loud!! Geesh does I love you always have to mean romance!?! I could use a little advice on what to do about this guys because it's really starting to tick me off!!

Or just ignore what he said, and then you won't get ticked off?

 

[April_Rose]

Everything that is going on has everyone's nerves on edge. This is a international forum and you have good Christians here and you have fruit-loops here....you cannot be thin skinned. It does not matter what anybody says....by the way what are you doing this Saturday?

I guess you have a point and I don't think I'm doing anything but what does that have to do with this?

Or just ignore what he said, and then you won't get ticked off?

See?? If @lforrest had written his response like this then it would haven't sounded so mean and actually helpful to me,.. but the way he wrote it just sounded so rude.

 

[Grailhunter]

I guess you have a point and I don't think I'm doing anything but what does that have to do with this?

It is a joke...levity...humor....get some!
lighten up...enjoy....consider the source...
If you want to get serious....here ya go. Do you know that there are people here that think or believe that women should not be on this forum....much less talk about religion. It is people....and there are denominations that believe that. So if you make a male friend on this forum they think you are sinning. You should not speak to any male other than your husband. The ownership thing still persists...it is an extension of Judaism where women were owned by their husbands. And there are Christians here that mix Judaism with Christianity....

The female voice was silenced for so long in Christianity....that probably caused some of the problems that we have seen in Christianity. I support and defend the female voice....you are allowed to make friends, male and female....You know what is in your heart, you know what you are doing....don't worry about the weirdos. Judging and gossiping is a double edge sword and the sharp side includes the handle, it usually comes back to bite'em.

 

[lforrest]

I guess you have a point and I don't think I'm doing anything but what does that have to do with this?










See?? If @lforrest had written his response like this then it would haven't sounded so mean and actually helpful to me,.. but the way he wrote it just sounded so rude.

I'm 100% serious, you need to stay 2 steps ahead of any appearance of impropriety. Like Mike Pence was mocked for doing.

As for the remedy, I mean complain for real to the moderators. It is harassment. We get enough of that here that I have no mercy for causing them more work.

 

[April_Rose]

It is a joke...levity...humor....get some!
lighten up...enjoy....consider the source...
If you want to get serious....here ya go. Do you know that there are people here that think or believe that women should not be on this forum....much less talk about religion. It is people....and there are denominations that believe that. So if you make a male friend on this forum they think you are sinning. You should not speak to any male other than your husband. The ownership thing still persists...it is an extension of Judaism where women were owned by their husbands. And there are Christians here that mix Judaism with Christianity....

The female voice was silence for so long in Christianity....that probably caused some of the problems that we have seen in Christianity. I support and defend the female voice....you are allowed to make friends, male and female....You know what is in your heart, you know what you are doing....don't worry about the weirdos. Judging and gossiping is a double edge sword and the sharp side includes the handle, it usually comes back to bite'em.

Okay,.. but how was I supposed to know that was a joke? I don't even get it. It sounded like a normal question though.

 

[April_Rose]

I'm 100% serious, you need to stay 2 steps ahead of any appearance of impropriety. Like Mike Pence was mocked for doing.

As for the remedy, I mean complain for real to the moderators. It is harassment. We get enough of that here that I have no mercy for causing them more work.

Problem,.. the staff members believed that person and they're part of the problem. My apologies though,.. I thought you were being sarcastic and judging me and telling me that I was a total moron for coming out about this issue.

 

[Grailhunter]

Okay,.. but how was I supposed to know that was a joke? I don't even get it. It sounded like a normal question though.

No harm....loosen up. It is a forum not a court.

 

[Nancy]

Everything that is going on has everyone's nerves on edge. This is a international forum and you have good Christians here and you have fruit-loops here....you cannot be thin skinned. It does not matter what anybody says....by the way what are you doing this Saturday?

 

[Nancy]

Everything that is going on has everyone's nerves on edge. This is a international forum and you have good Christians here and you have fruit-loops here....you cannot be thin skinned. It does not matter what anybody says....by the way what are you doing this Saturday?

Indeed bro. elephant skin! lol.

 

[April_Rose]

Can somebody please explain to me @Grailhunter's joke? Was it that he was joking about wanting to ask me out or something? I wasn't taking anything personally, I was just trying to understand it.

 

[Grailhunter]

Can somebody please explain to me @Grailhunter's joke? Was it that he was joking about wanting to ask me out or something? I wasn't taking anything personally, I was just trying to understand it.

Within the parameters of the topic...I was joking around...I was telling you to get a little humor...not to be so thin skinned... don't take everyone so seriously. Lighten up. Adoration and Prayer Warrior imploded on each other and went bye bye. I am an ox, can't get through my skin. But I understand people have tough stuff going on in their life and can be sensitive...just got to have a little confidence in yourself and grin and bear it or laugh it off.

 

[JohnDB]

This one person on another website keeps spreading rumors about me!! She says that me and this other member are cheating on our significant other because we're both having an affair and we're just friends for crying out loud!! Geesh does I love you always have to mean romance!?! I could use a little advice on what to do about this guys because it's really starting to tick me off!!

People who constantly accuse others of sexual misconduct or perversion have serious psychological issues.

I mean me and you have a father/daughter type relationship...my wife knows all that I know about you and all that I have told you about me. I try to assist you in your relationship with Joey and have a wonderful perception of your mother...I like your daddy better than you too. But a romantic type relationship between us would be ridiculousness. Especially with my fear of such things because of how much I love my wife.

But speaking of rumor mongers...they got mental health issues.

 

[dev553344]

This one person on another website keeps spreading rumors about me!! She says that me and this other member are cheating on our significant other because we're both having an affair and we're just friends for crying out loud!! Geesh does I love you always have to mean romance!?! I could use a little advice on what to do about this guys because it's really starting to tick me off!!

It sounds like you're being cleverly trolled. Best to complain to the mods, if that doesn't work then ignore them.