justaname,
Sorry for the slow reply. It has been a busy Christmas season
. Here are my thoughts about your questions....
First you did not comment concerning how you believe some love darkness while others do not. Is your teaching that some are inherently good by nature?
I agree that humanity is depraved. All sin and all are in need of a Savior. I just reject the notion that humanity is "totally depraved" to the point that a person cannot even recognize good and evil or accept the light when it is presented to them. Again, I think Romans 7 spells this out very clearly. Paul recognizes what is good and he loves the goodness of God. However, he cannot follow what he knows to be right because sin dwelling in his body. The law he loves only condemns him because his flesh is wicked. So we see that Paul, 1) can recognize what is good and can appreciate it, and 2) cannot live out perfect righteousness because of his depraved flesh. Humanity is depraved and has a bent toward seflishness and evil. No one can save themselves or live righteously according to the law (I am not a Pelagian). However, humans can recognize what is good and accept grace. In fact, God expects us to do this and he condemns those who do not believe. This is why Jesus says those who reject him are condemned already. It is not because they cannot accept him, but because they can recognize light from darkness and choose darkness. This is a choice and they are condemned because they make a wicked choice, not because they can do nothing else.
Humans dwell in darkness. The whole world is steeped in sin and under the control of the wicked one. Our natural tendency is to do what is contrary to the desires of God. However, in the midst of this, people can recognize goodness. In fact, Paul makes it clear in Romans 2 that even the pagan who do not have the law have a conscience that shows the basics of the law stamped on their hearts. This is why they are subject to condemnation. They have no excuse. They cannot say, "We didnt have the law, so how can we be convicted of sin?" Paul says that God has given them a conscience and a knowledge of what is good so they are still under sin will be judged accordingly. Moreover, in John 1 and 3, we see that men love darkness. However, it is also clear that not all do. There are those who believe. Again, there is no indication in these verses that people do evil because they have no other choice. Jesus gives them a clear choice to come into the light, or continue to love darkness. Most choose darkness, but some accept the light and believe.
“But whoever does what is true comes to the light, so that it may be clearly seen that his works have been carried out in God.”” (John 3:21, ESV)
Then would we not say that some men (those that believe) are inherently better than others, thus by their righteousness they come to faith?
I think this question is wrongly worded. Someone having an inner character that allows them to humble themselves and seek grace is not the same thing as possessing righteousness. This is something I have been trying to explain to you over the past few posts. Abraham was not righteous because he believed God. He was credited righteousness because he believed. In other words, Abraham was not right with God, but by faith, God imputed righteousness to him because God gives grace to those who trust him. I think you have a very non-Jewish definition of righteousness here. For the Jew, righteousness was about keeping the law, the ceremonies and walking uprightly. Righteousness was something someone "did" not an inner quality. A person was made righteous by their works (circumcision, Sabbath observances, good deeds, alms giving, keeping feasts, keeping the commandments, etc.) Christianity turned this notion of righteousness on its head by saying that no one could be made righteous by keeping the law. One's good works were not sufficient to satisfy a holy God because all sin. Thus, true righteousness could only come with it being imputed by faith in Jesus Christ. So, someone doesnt come to faith because they are righteous, they have faith because they are not righteous. The trust in the righteousness of Christ and God grants them righteousness by that faith.
So, to answer the first part of your question, yes, our inner character makes a difference. Yet that is shaped by our choices, and is not something predetermined. This is why John the Baptist came and called people to "repent" and make "straight the way of the Lord." People were called to change their hearts and humble themselves for the coming King. People like the Pharisees were too proud to humble themselves and this inner pride and selfishness prevented them from knowing the grace of Christ. This is why we call people to humble themselves and repent. God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble. If a person wants grace, they must humble their hearts. It is a choice and God allows us to make it.
To answer the second part of your question, no, coming to faith is not righteousness. Recognizing I am a sinner who is condemned before a holy God and I cannot save myself is not personal righteousness. Rather, it is merely an admission that I am not righteous. If I had personal righteousness, then I wouldnt need faith because I could trust in my own goodness rather than needing to put my hope and trust in Christ. Does that make sense?
Second you seem to believe God is monergistic in saving infants and the mentally handicapped but not with others? Some are required to believe the gospel, while others are not?
No, I believe we do not share in Adam's guilt. A newborn baby has never sinned, and therefore has no need of being saved from their sins. Depravity and guilt from conscious sin are two very different things. I can have a bent toward sinful behavior, but if I am a baby and never have an opportunity to act on that depraved nature, then I am not guilty of sin. God only judges us according to our acts, not according to the acts of our parents or Adam.
““Yet you say, ‘Why should not the son suffer for the iniquity of the father?’ When the son has done what is just and right, and has been careful to observe all my statutes, he shall surely live. The soul who sins shall die. The son shall not suffer for the iniquity of the father, nor the father suffer for the iniquity of the son. The righteousness of the righteous shall be upon himself, and the wickedness of the wicked shall be upon himself.” (Ezekiel 18:19–20, ESV)
If a person does not know better or never made a conscious, willful sin, then they are not guilty of doing such. As for the mentally handicapped, I think the same applies. They are judged according to what they understand. I think Romans 5 makes it clear though that Christ's work that we live under original grace, not original sin. I'll just leave it at that for now, but there is much that could be said in this area if you want to explore it deeper.
You say we are held accountable based on our understanding...do you have Scripture to support this idea?
Yes, there are a few. First, I would say that the Ezekiel passage above shows that infants are not judged by their parent's sin. Second, Jesus tells us that “Everyone to whom much was given, of him much will be required, and from him to whom they entrusted much, they will demand the more.” (Luke 12:48, ESV) Also, Romans 7:9 makes it clear that it is our knowledge of what is good and doing the opposite that brings us condemnation. Also, Romans 5:12-19 tells us that Christ's cross undid Adam's curse so that we have original grace rather than original sin.
Im out of time....ill try to share my thoughts on the other questions later today.
God does not delight in the destruction of the wicked, yet His divine justice must be served. In His mercy He chooses to save some.
Perhaps the biggest question I have is if God is not the cause for belief what causes some to believe where others do not?