I removed US law, now you have God's word's below, now what ya gonna do for the GUY that wants a Harem of women, and professes to be in the kingdom of Jesus Christ?
God clearly defines marriage as between a Man and woman as seen below.
It's not a matter of what you think about anyone, you don't set the standards, God does.
Matthew 19:4-6 below couldn't read any more clear, basic and simple.
One Man And One Woman, Twain/Two become one flesh, clear, simple And Easy To Read.
God's word does not state and "Three Become One Flesh", biblically your recommendation to the pastor was not sound in the light of presented scripture.
Matthew 19:4-6KJV
4 And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female,
5 And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh?
6 Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.
Sadly you are showing your true strips and they are not pretty.
Go and have a good day now you hear me.