lilygrace
Well-Known Member
It seemed that someone else thought the post referred to her. It seemed to resolve itself and even though I don't agree that someone's Id from another site was given i was not upset.Lilly grace, if you reached out to someone trying to help them with your whole heart, and instead of them receiving you as a friend they treated you like an enemy for doing so, wouldn't this be a little more than someone merely "draining" you? Wouldn't it actually kinda hurt that in return for your kindness someone gave unkindness in response, and made you wonder if there was any point in trying to help?
I posted you nothing but kind messages trying to encourage you in other treads. You never even posted so much as a response or a "like" to anything I said even though I was trying to reach out to you. Then the one time when someone posted something they assumed I directed towards them in an unkind way, that you immediately jumped on and said, "I would agree. That it's uncool to talk about someone as if they can't read it when they actually can.... I kind of sensed that was going on.."
It wasn't going on, as I explained very clearly, even exposing the identity of the person I was ACTUALLY talking about just to try and maybe clear my name. And did you even then consider sending me a kind word? And I posted on this thread having not the slightest thought that it was about you. Would you tell me again what a sinner and evil person I am when all I was trying to do is help?
Why am I supposed to be perpetually encouraging to you, while you meanwhile perpetually make me out to be someone who is unkind and inconsiderate? Why must I be the only one who is kind? Scripture talks about giving and receiving, and this is the heart of true Christianity. Why am I supposed to give love, and I am a sinner if I don't, but I should be happy with the fact that I receive back nothing in return? I don't understand. That doesn't sound like Christianity to me. It is supposed to be about giving and receiving, not taking and taking and never giving anything good back.
It still referred to someone online though which was unrelated to my post in general. I ended up forgetting it even happened.
I've felt I've been supportive of people for being a new member. You aren't being fair to me by saying I'm taking and not giving.
Just seems like a misunderstanding and blown out of proportion.
My pm box is always open for anyone who wants something resolved . I generally check to see how my friends are doing.... I have a pregnant friend for instance. . I guess I'm just a crap person
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