The question we should be asking ourselves is this....what are we doing with what God gave us? All the ones who perished in the wilderness were saved from Egypt. But God was not pleased with many of them.
Likewise He is not pleased with many of us.
The question I ask is why you think of God's love for His children as a desire to cast them into outer darkness? That's what I can never understand about what you teach.
If there is one question each of us should ask ourselves . . . IMO . . . it is this.
Am I in communion with Jesus? If you don't know the answer, then there is one thing to do. And if you do know the answer, because you are, then there is another thing.
What do you suppose is most displeasing to God among those who say they know Him? I think of Ephesians 4, that speaks of making God very sad!
29 Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers.
30 And grieve not the holy Spirit of God, whereby ye are sealed unto the day of redemption.
Grieve not the holy Spirit of God.
What does the apostle write? Only say that which ministers grace to the hearer. God's gift of favor in giving to us Christ, God incarnate, to bring us back to Him. And what does He say? We've been "sealed unto the day of redemption". And of anyone, God is The One most able to enforce His claim of ownership!
Give grace to the hearers. We are sealed unto the day of redemption. Don't speak in a way to make God sad.
Much love!