Robert Gwin
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Agreed. And if we are NOT fighting against flesh and blood....then who ARE we fighting against? I see the "adversary's" hand in most everything worldly, cartoons, music, movies, clothes, on and on.
Right now, I am personally going through issues with the city I live in. The man who came to my home because of a complaint I made (only time in over 11 yrs.) This guy is written up all the time but, nothing gets done as he just pays the fine. His house and yard are infested with rats. Anyhow, when this inspector came to my house to look at his yard (wonder why he just did not go to HIS house?!) he was not at all nice, he came in with an attitude and a frown. Then he starts picking me apart over petty things, I honestly believe he knows the guy next door as, he IS related to several cops and, they all work out of City Hall. I was in tears by the time he left and am flailing not knowing what to do, and angry at him and my neighbor. One of my brothers prayed with me and reminded me (after hearing me cursing out the guy) that, "we fight not against flesh and blood" so, that DID calm me...a tad. Very hard to separate the human from the spirit in these cases so, we probably should treat all ill treatment as coming from "the adversary".
This is not to take away from your post Matt! As, you could well be correct!
Having a bad neighbor is definitely one of the most stressing things in life maam. I truly sympathize with you, and am so very thankful I am not in that spot myself. What is worse, and believe me no disrespect here, but you are a woman, which means you operate more emotionally, and stess is an emotion that can really put you into a state of depression. Some scriptures that are involved here that you might consider, and might even help to improve the situation if applied: (Matthew 22:39) The second, like it, is this, ‘You must love your neighbor as yourself.’
(Romans 13:8) Do not YOU people be owing anybody a single thing, except to love one another; for he that loves his fellowman has fulfilled [the] law.
(John 3:16) “For God loved the world so much that he gave his only-begotten Son, in order that everyone exercising faith in him might not be destroyed but have everlasting life.
(Luke 6:35-36) To the contrary, continue to love YOUR enemies and to do good and to lend [without interest], not hoping for anything back; and YOUR reward will be great, and YOU will be sons of the Most High, because he is kind toward the unthankful and wicked. 36 Continue becoming merciful, just as YOUR Father is merciful.
(Galatians 6:10) Really, then, as long as we have time favorable for it, let us work what is good toward all, but especially toward those related to [us] in the faith.
(1 Timothy 4:16) Pay constant attention to yourself and to your teaching. Stay by these things, for by doing this you will save both yourself and those who listen to you.
(Romans 12:19-21) Do not avenge yourselves, beloved, but yield place to the wrath; for it is written: “Vengeance is mine; I will repay, says Jehovah.” 20 But, “if your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink; for by doing this you will heap fiery coals upon his head.” 21 Do not let yourself be conquered by the evil, but keep conquering the evil with the good.
Living in the last days we expect things to get worse as the love of the greater number has lessened Mat 24:12, but those who endure to the end will be saved v13.
What I would do in your case, would be to mostly ignore him, but being extremely kind if interaction takes place. Never forget that the fiery coals you will be putting upon his head, may melt him down to return kindness for kindness.
Use it as a test as well, each time you pass the test makes you a stronger Christian, and you will feel great. Think about how you felt later after cursing out that guy. Hope that helps to relieve some of your stress, definitely pray about it.