By your magnificent Tulip everyone starts in the same condition and some are arbitrarily picked out for another condition.
Do you have everyone starting at a differing condition? All outside of Christ are condemned; John 3:18; and all are under wrath; Ephesians 2:3. That's the condition.
God elects some to salvation according to his plan and purpose; Ephesians 1:11; Romans 8:28; 2 Thessalonians 2:13.
What you are arguing is that God chose you because you did something, and favored you because you did something. Favor is grace, and God's grace is unmerited, yet you have yourself meriting grace because of something you've done and God being you do it then because of what you did God saves you. That is not grace, and that is not a gift, it is a meritorious reward based on what you did.
All men fell. Right now mankind justly receives wrath, which is God removing his restraint on mankind, and society is spiralling out of control. He is just in allowing this. Right? He owes man nothing. Right?
God rightly can exercise justice on every single person. As judge he owes no man an opportunity for salvation. By his grace he has exercised mercy on whom he wills; note Exodus 33:19ff; Romans 9:16; Romans 12:1ff. Those who die in their sins receive his justice, and that is neither unjust, or injustice, he owes them nothing.
Therefore we should fear God in his Sovereign execution of justice or mercy, as none are deserving of the latter. All are deserving of the former and are owed nothing. He elects based on nothing in us, and there is nothing good in any of us for him to elect us. He elects according to his plan and purpose. Some judge God as unjust for all this. They need to be very careful here in charging God with such foolishness; Romans 9:27.