The arrogant,self rightous and condescending response i expected...i am not doing the best i can because i can't do anything apart from God's help...you do not uphold the standard either...through the anonymity of the internet you puff yourself up as a great holy man when the reality is i suspect far from that....the picture you use says it all.
Oh my,look how witty you are....please continue to expose yourself holy man...perfect rightous holy man.
How interesting it would be to be able to examine both of these perfect holy men's lives,their thoughts,words and deeds....it woukld reveal much and their shame would be great.
I have never said I was perfect, nor righteous. I'm on record saying exactly the opposite.
So let this be my public opinion voiced that you are a malicious presence here to impose your will and views on others and not a benefit to ANY conversation.
You again avoided the issues and made it personal.
Hi XP,
The last time I called you 'brother' you accused me of patronising you, I can't think why, and yet you as a 'brother' think it's okay to descend on a CyB like the proverbial Assyrian wolf, accusing others of not being prepared to discuss, while your own level of patience for 'discussion' stretches to about three posts, before you start name-calling, rather than addressing the points which have been reasonably raised, with a comparably reasoned contribution.
Well it's more than three with him, and ONE is enough if they are doing what he is doing. he has a behavior that YOU SHOULD HAVE TALKED TO HIM ABOUT as he is undoubtedly "your brother". Since you didn't police your own family, and it was slapping me, I tried nicely, then progressively to reach to him in a way that he would understand and face. He's denied it. This doesn't change the fact that your position is encouraging, enabling his malicious behavior. YOu find it important for me to NOT note his ill behavior, but you won't address him on his ill behavior. Sorry, but that makes this personal against me.
I understand I have a more forward and blunt personality than you. I understand how personalities rub others the wrong way. I do not let that get in the way of the content though. You have been on the threshold of saying something to me fora while. You should have done it earlier. Confrontation isn't a bad thing. BAD confrontation is a bad thing.
My right to talk to him???? matt 18 is where I start. and who is CyB?
If anyone makes it personal, it's yourself.
If I take the time to break down the full of my responses with him and you and show you that is an emotional not rational comment would you acknowledge it or shift focus and blame as best you can? I don't wanna waste my time when it won't accrue any benefit.
I have yet to see one thread in which you have contributed to the topic, in which you have not taken the opportunity to throw in an unnecessarily personal jibe at a poster. Obviously you are aware that you do this, because you comment on it, calling it 'fun'. I guess we all have our weaknesses and pre-conditioning, and thank the Lord He's come into our lives to deliver us from them all! ;)
Then complain to the boss about me dragonfly. I've yet to see one topic you haven't presumed to have the right answers and avoided the arguments against you and just repeated your position, either. But that's how you are so why would I gripe about your nature. Let's take a poll of if I contribute to the topics or not..... Come on dragon fly you are on a pure emotional rant here, wanna back it up with reason? I'm willing to be wrong, is it even possible for you to be wrong?
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I'm serious about that. We all need a bit of temple made-without-hands preparation during this life, so that when we are placed in that eternal city, we are perfectly ready. But... I will be glad when you change all those jibes into silence, or, a positively edifying comment, instead.
If I make an argument, I give you reasons 1, 2, 3, why I put forward my conclusion. You come in and say, "You claimed to be perfect so why would we listen to you", and then I point out you went personal rather than stayed on the arguments, I have reached out PAST the petty petulance of the FUndagelical community to reason. You are here, now, slapping me for doing so. You stir my sympathetic emotions. I feel sorry for you and your view on the world. Someone in your past has traumatized you, so you react in this way. If I could take away that pain I would. But you need to handle it, I can't do it for you.
Yes I'm serious. It's Empiricaly proven. It's undeniable. That's EXACTLY what you are doing. You can shut up and introspect, consider it or just attack and lash out I don't care it's between you and God, But I have a whole forum of proof. If you want to put us all on trial here and it will change you if you are shown the error of your ways I'll waste my time. I'm willing to change. I can prove I am willing to change. But you have to show me I'm wrong, not just cry and whine and allow your "holy brothers" to get away with a worse offense than you are jumping me for. Do you realize how transparent that sorta move is? How aggendadized it is?
Go back and read all your own posts, and see what you have said about other people whom you hardly know. You yourself when posting to Rach justified giving a person ONE CHANCE, before you think it is okay to give tit for tat. How is that 'Xian'?
I have. I also have off line lurkers that do as well.
Their thoughts are, I'm way more tolerant than I should be with folks like Strat, and your passive aggressiveness.
The thing you have to ask yourself, are you more concerned with being right, or with getting to the truth.
For me it's the truth. I want the truth. When you vacate the arguments, to pick at me personally you left the discussion and I'll try to get you back. THAT is what you'll find. IF I EVER say a name to someone, it's because of behavior they have exhibited. IF the name identification is bad, then THE BEHAVIOR IS WORSE BY DEFINITION.
It's not bad to call a murderer a murderer. It's bad to use a name to discredit someone unjustly so you have an edge in people's perception from the conversation. It's called Ad Hominem.
Will you invest the time here? I'll reconcile this. It can only be good for everyone.
I'm interested how many would support your claim that I've never made a positive contribution in a thread that was on topic. I find such hyperbolic SINCERE claims to show your distance from reality.