I might add . . .Marks, if I held onto all of what has been directed at me, then I would be a mess. I try and keep a short list of the wrongs against me, and forgive the person and deal with the accusation as to whether I need to repent because of their words. I often have to deal with my pride as well.
If we are writing, lead by the Holy Spirit, then the outcome is not ours to dictate. It is God mandate to use what we write and post such that His message get through to the other parties.
Ephesians 4:1-3 KJV
1) I therefore, the prisoner of the Lord, beseech you that ye walk worthy of the vocation wherewith ye are called,
2) With all lowliness and meekness, with longsuffering, forbearing one another in love;
3) Endeavouring to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.
Ephesians 4:29 KJV
Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers.
Let's all aspire to attain to these things. I think pride is a battle we all share! Being determined to only speak what will serve grace to others is the part we can do, bringing that grace through us God does. Or that is my hope!
Much love!