I havn't read all the posts on here so pelase excuse me if I'm going over ground that's allready been covered.
Truthseeker! I must say that I think you've put together an interesting thread, the issue of wether Hell is eternal or not or wether there even is a Hell is worth much consideration. Reading you posts and aprticualrly your openning one I almsot feel like I'd like to agree but something holds me back.
And that is that the CHurch has always taught that there is a Hell, that it isan inferno and that it alsts forever. The early church (pre St Jeropme) established this belief before the Bible was put into Latin, when the language of the vast majority of Churchman was Greek and they could read most of the New Testament in its original language. The only people in the first few centuries of CHristianity that did not teach the doctrine of eternal hellfire were all deemd to be heretical by the Catholic Church, which is the Church that operatesas Christ's representative on earth, through apostallic succession.
Another neccessary poitn is that the Greek Orthodox Church, which continues to read the New Testament in the original language to this day and has done for centuries does teach that there is a Hell, that it is forever and that it is an inferno.
So I would therefore say that the authority in this case is with the CHruch, even over scripture since the Church is what dfines scripture and is what compiled it in the first place.
Just my two cents (pence)
You are right. It is in the end a matter what people want to believe instead of what God/Bible/Church would like to say.
Humans are arrogant. So they don't want to believe an eternal hell. They thus judge God to say that if there's an eternal hell there, God must have done something wrong.
We humans are not in any position to judge God even when God said that hell is eternal. If hell exists and is eternal, God has a reason to let it be so, with or without human understanding. Humans with little faith, with self-righteousness will lose their faith over this.
Satan will be burnt forever, you may have fewer problems with this. However, after leaving God, no one will be able to guarantee that humans won't go beyond what the fallen angels will be. They can be more evil in nature than Satan in a sense that they are designed with a full blown freewill.
It's one way ticket if you decide to leave God. That's actually how freewill is designed. That is, in front of true choices, true freewill will divide.
God's plan is to build an eternal realm named the Kingdom in Heaven. And it was proven through Adam that men with little faith and unwilling to be obedient will have to be driven out of God's Kingdom (like Eden).
Humans are getting worse and worse after that, as a matter of freewill that God ever decided to destroy them all in Noah's age. That actually reflected that when leaving God's Kingdom (whether it is Satan or humans), humans can't go any better. The analogy is that when leaves detached from the trunk of the tree, they keep decaying to the point that they will be burnt.
The point is, you will be in a complete separation from God because you are not selected to be in Heaven (because you won't be able to live there due to the lack of faith and obedience), and while love belongs to God so in such a separation you no longer have love inside you. The only way you can be is just like being prophesied, you will lose all you humanity over time and will become a satan yourself.
God let you be what you are when you are still human, once you changed to a demon of some kind. It doesn't matter if you are burnt or not, or you are burnt forever or not.
The whole situation is actually repeating Adam's fault, as Adam (humans) rather wanted to believe that "we are not surely die". It's just another fruit on the tree for humans to choose the same by neglecting what God says, due to the lack of faith and obedience, relying on the knowledge of self-righteousness (right or wrong),
Moreover, "no hell' is actually an anti-Christ doctrine. Because the Bible clearly says that you need to believe in Jesus and abide by the New Covenant to be saved. However the 'no hell' doctrine ridicules what the Bible says by conveying the message that "You will be saved anyway, with or without Jesus Christ, with or without the New Covenant".
In a nutshell, under the influence of the anti-Christ/Satan, you taste the Tree of Knowledge of good and evil again to say that "you will not surely die".