Women not speaking or teaching was a Jewish cultural law. Females didn't even go to school!
Rules on the Gifts of the Spirit do not have that liberty.
At the end of chapter 14 Paul writes this:
37 If anyone thinks himself to be a prophet or spiritual, let him acknowledge that the things which I write to you are the commandments of the Lord. 38 But]if anyone is ignorant, let him be ignorant. 39 Therefore, brethren, desire earnestly to prophesy, and do not forbid to speak with tongues. 40 Let all things be done decently and in order.
And Bob, when you know the truth that all the different devout Jews gathered around witnessing the disciples speak in tongues, received the GIFT OF INTERPRETATION OF TONGUES. When you read the account is was not a cacophony of different languages that each of those devout Jews gathered heard. How could they even pick out their own language out of the 120 different languages being spoken. No, each devout Jew heard all of the disciples speaking his own language like a choir. A Frenchman heard them all speak French. A Spaniard heard all of them speaking Spanish. A Russian heard all of them speaking Russian. Those are just examples of what it was like.
When the Holy Spirit fell, not only did the disciples receive a gift, but those God was drawing to Christ was sovereignly given the gift of interpretation of tongues, the ONLY means they could understand, seeing as "no man understands (naturally), no matter what you want to believe to the contrary.
Get it?