Well, I dont know your background or your views, but if you proposing a kind of individualistic, anti-church notion of Christianity that is popular today, I strongly reject it.
well, what is your definition of "church?" See, there is no building that you can point to and say "Church." The individual
is the Church. Whose borders i see presently expanding, btw, even as the accepted definition of "church" is witnessing implosion; 60 million + have abandoned that model now in the West. So imo regardless of one's opinions, there are other signs to indicate truth there. BAM forsake not gathering yourselves together; but we can witness that our notion of "community"--which i believe is our current vernacular for the best understanding of this concept--is completely exploded now.
So iow we have a notion of going to a "church" on Sunday for an hour to "congregate," believing that we are fulfilling a Scriptural mandate, but we don't know any of our next door neighbors, and our families are spread out all over the country or even the globe? So imo seeking a better understanding of "wherever two or three are gathered" might be in order. Our current notion of church ends up excluding, even if some Grace is sprinkled on top; the premise is "we have got it right, and if you agree with us, you can go to heaven, and if you don't, you prolly won't."
Fyi, saved baptist, then went through free will, charismatic, messianic jew, prosperity, and pentecostal. Prolly forgot a couple. Learned some at each one, no horror stories about leaving any of them.
Jesus didn't come to save a bunch of individuals. He came to build a Church and create a community where believers "love" each other.
Amen. A Church made of Living Stones, in a community separate from the world, called earth, perhaps. At the very least imo it is ok to question the definition we have been given, whose borders are shrinking.
The modern, Christian-bashing, elitist forms of individualistic Christianity popular today that basically says, "I dont need the Church, I'll just have my own personal faith with Jesus" is, in my view, anti-Christian. There is nothing loving in such an approach but is generally very arrogant and rejects any leadership but its own. Love is displayed in acts of submission, surrender, self-sacrifice, service to others, and considering others before one's self. Personally, I think many reject formal church settings because they are too self centered to be a part of something bigger than themselves.
Im not saying this is you, but its a trend I see today. In any event, as Christians, we are called to be a part of a body that serves others and loves others. You can't do that by yourself. Anyone who wants to be used of God can only do so by serving others and so, yes, I believe people need to be part of a "form" of Christianity. It isn't a nebulous thing one does by themselves while contemplating their navals. haha
well, i note that in the accepted model of church i am encouraged to dwell on getting myself in shape somehow to be acceptable to spend Eternity in Heaven, generally by proselytizing others into the same belief, which is what passes for "service" now, i guess, similar to how "money" is now "seed" etc, and most or at least many messages from the accepted pulpit seem to concentrate on fixing guilt or placing blame, which imo was not worked out pre-baptism, so that it becomes a club afterward, forevermore, to beat people with. So i suspect this definition of "service," as well as the one of "church," and prolly most of the other important ones, too.
Tares are suddenly "weeds" now, that has happened in my lifetime, can't even find any mind-altering properties in Tares anymore. Not even in the new Strong's anymore, lol.
http://biblehub.com/greek/2215.htm see? "worthless." no mention of them still being cultivated and sold, right now today, for their mind-altering effects. Even our translations say "weeds," most of them. "Wine" has equally been obscured, and Distilled Wine, the detergent, well, that is completely gone now.
The old wine is better, they say. Of course that is just a reference to some alcoholics, there in a Book for believers in God, meant to impart a closer walk. Prolly has no other meaning, almost certainly probably.
You are going to die alone, and you are driven into the wilderness alone, so imo there is a time for being alone. Where two or three gather in His Name describes no congregation that i have ever been a part of, even if the passage is abused for that--pretty sure that is not what the passage is referring to. You walking out of somewhere, say a store--if you go to stores--and running across someone who needs help, is in distress, say, and you stop to listen for a minute, perhaps, because everyone else is maybe ignoring them, and then someone else materializes at a certain point in the transaction, encouraged by seeing you there listening, or maybe appearing at a crucial juncture in the story, or even at an impasse in the transaction, when you are maybe close to a solution but stuck at some detail--i have had it occur in all these ways--but this is likely the best illumination of wherever two or three gather in His Name, at least imo.
i see the same trend you do, and imo it is because people are done with the hypocrisy and legalism. And i don't mean to blame pastors there, as they are forced into a box imo, of giving the people what they want, which happens step by step, and i think pastors get drawn in. Get put on a pedestal, get swept along by the system, and get forced into positions of having to administrate a church as well as pastor. Signing a 501c3 is de rigeur, right? No one even questions it. Of course you are going to sign, lol, are you crazy?
So pastors end up selling what people want to buy, mostly; because telling them the truth, that
no one knows where they go when they die, or telling them to actually follow some of Christ's directions to the 12, or the 70, "you wanna follow Christ? Drop your nets, and leave town in the morning; stay in one place, and eat what they feed you while you are there." See, none of that is very conducive to a large, tithe-paying congregation now, is it. And "churches" have mortgages to pay, these days, right? You don't see any conflict there?
Another thread has already suggested that a believer be "outside the camp," so i might build on that by saying that we mistakenly believe we need to find a group of people who believe just like we do, when experience can show anyone that this is not even possible; that is not what gathering together is for imo. Or it might be, but when you are not of one accord on a matter, that does not translate as "you are in the wrong, and just need to have faith--in your pastor," but rather "no one has it right," most likely. Because everyone will agree with the "right" perspective, without having to be coerced. Or listen to the ones who do not agree; their disagreement will tell you where they are coming from, anyway.
When you go out two-by-two, see--which i am not even talking to Christians now, am i; i am talking to those who want to follow Christ--see that you are going alone, the two men that you are, in a bed. Or by all means take someone if you like, and try the missionary concept first; but you will miss some things, and you haven't really experienced the concept properly, just you alone, trusting God, guided by the Spirit--at least imo. BAM try them both.