well, i could comment on that, but it would all be from hindsight, and imo the point is likely to experience it and make one's own mistakes lol. Suffice it to say that you are going to be "wrong" to them though, too.
You are not going to be in any kind of control iow.
For most people, you are going to be in hell.
The situation is unique in that you prolly are not meeting peers from a setting of mutual understanding, a church or whatever, where you might have things in common--though i guess you could if you aimed that way--but more like you are being rescued, to their minds, even though you know God has sent these people to you. Hence the direction to stay in one house, which you are going to want to change houses, too.