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Episkopos

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I don't know, Episkopos, if you are of the mind that God curses His own children, what is your understanding of the nature of grace?
Humans don't usually care about truth...they care about their children.

But God always judges with justice. So right off the bat by comparing people to God you are going to get things backwards. God is not like us...at all.

Did God hate His children for no cause? Did He not reject national Israel?

God is love...but unless we are transformed into being like Him, how can we remain with Him? Without holiness none shall see the Lord. So love is unconditional...but salvation and promotion are VERY conditional. We must be seen as worthy. All the angels and the cloud of witnesses must see it. It must be true...or else it is rejected...no exceptions.

If more people realized this...more would fear the Lord and depart from all the iniquity we see.
 
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You don't think I'm asking a fair question? This is forum. It's what we do. He can answer, or not, which is generally what he does. Or anyone else can chime in. Or you can point a finger at me for asking.

Personally, this idea that God's going to curse His own children, I think that should be questioned.



I'm interested to see in Scritpure that we are subject to God's curses being born again, the spirit children of God, hidden in Him. Curses? This I question.

So I ask, what does grace mean to you? To me, it is the goodness that flows from God to us, both in adoption and in rebirth, in decree, and a new creation. In faith, and in hope. I believe God's grace is His ability expressed in us to redeem and restore us. And to fail from His grace it to try to do it any other way. Fallen from grace by trying to improve ourselves in the flesh, thinking that we need to keep law to stay saved. That's not grace.

Much love!


The bible is there to warn people. Nothing personal. God doesn't respect persons. So if you disobey God...you are cursed. God is not going to change the law so you can escape the ramifications. it is on us to fear and depart. So God warns us over and over again. The answer is to fear and depart from iniquity..not respond by saying...that's not grace!

Grace is the power to overcome sin and the world.

Many people will cling to this easy peasy grace thing until there is weeping and gnashing of teeth. THEN that will settle the matter.
 

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Grace is a gift that enables us to do things...not to be forgiven things. Quite the opposite. We will be judged harder under grace. Mercy is not the same as grace. God has always been merciful...but grace comes from the resurrection power of Christ.

I explain grace like this. We are told to dig a hole. (law) Now men make shovels and try to dig as deep as they can. But this is insufficient.

Now grace is like the gift of a backhoe (tractor)...given to us in order to dig like no man has ever dug before.

But if we leave the backhoe un-utilized...and condemn others for digging with shovels...while celebrating the gift of getting the backhoe all the same...then we are the laziest people in the world...that refused grace and justified ourselves because of the gifting from God. We would be wicked servants indeed. (think burying our talent)

On judgment day the only thing that matters is how deeply we dug. Grace will have nothing to do with it...although they with the greater capacity...who didn't dig...will receive the greater condemnation. Unless they dig!



Can you dig it?
 

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Jesus is like us though. And he is also God. He was tempted in all ways as we are yet is without sin.
 

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Yes, I agree we should always take our humaness into account! What I was trying to pinpoint was just sheer honesty about myself. If I am failing in trust, I need to admit it and ask for help, not treat it as something unimportant. Its a race of trust, therefore mistrust is not a good thing to run my race well.

But also, God is patient and He loves us. This should encourage me to be honest about my failings rather than pretend. And it should encourage me to ask for what I lack.
"Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you:" Matt 7:7
 

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if one does not Know they are saved then they are not saved. the Bible says that we may know w have eternal life. we have a seal placed upon us . we been bought with us price
 

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if one does not Know they are saved then they are not saved. the Bible says that we may know w have eternal life. we have a seal placed upon us . we been bought with us price
Hi Ezra,

That's an interesting point. Those who are saved should know that they are.

There was a friend of mine who liked to ask the question, have you been a Christian long enough to know that you are? I liked that. I think it can take us some time to really as the mind is beginning to be renewed, to know in our minds what we believe in our hearts.

I've also been thinking about passages such as this as I've been reading this thread, and another,

1 Timothy 1:19 "Holding faith, and a good conscience; which some having put away concerning faith have made shipwreck:"

2 Timoth 2
16 But shun profane and vain babblings: for they will increase unto more ungodliness.
17 And their word will eat as doth a canker: of whom is Hymenaeus and Philetus;
18 Who concerning the truth have erred, saying that the resurrection is past already; and overthrow the faith of some.
19 Nevertheless the foundation of God standeth sure, having this seal, The Lord knoweth them that are his. And, let every one that nameth the name of Christ depart from iniquity.

Shipwrecked faith, overthrown faith, Nevertheless . . . the foundation of God stands sure, having this seal, the Lord know them that are His.

Putting salvation onto someone's works is to subject them to Law, and subjecting someone to Law is what increases, provokes sin in the flesh. It diverts that person's attention off of the One Who gives true liberty, and onto themselves, with that legal threat, If you don't behave right, you'd be lost! And we know the conflict that exists with our flesh.

Only in God's grace can we be free of our flesh, and this demand that we act good enough to at the last be saved demands we, in the words from Galatians, Fall from Grace, into ourselves, our works, our idea of Law. And that person spirals into the certain knowledge that they can't actually do what is required. But that's the point. No one can, no one does.

The knowledge of truth, mixed with this error, wrecks our faith, our trust that God gives us liberty, and, not that we cease to be God's children, but that feeling of inadequacy in that in which I Must Be Adequate or Else, that is the opposite of faith in Christ, His work, His ability, His desire, His power in us, which we do not deserve, and yet He gives.

By faith in Christ we have access to the grace in which we stand. Our part is faith. His part is grace. In His grace we stand.

But without that faith, how do we stand?

And that speaks to the other thing Paul wrote to Timothy,

Nevertheless the foundation of God standeth sure, having this seal, The Lord knoweth them that are his. And, let every one that nameth the name of Christ depart from iniquity.

On God's part, His seal is His knowledge of who is His. There is no "hanging in the balance", He knows whether we're His and whether we're not His.

On our part, if you name Christ, depart from iniquity. The unsaved neither can nor want to. We can, we want to, so, just a surely as God knows who His children are, as we depart from iniquity, this is the seal shown to us.

We should have the testimony of a changed, redeemed life. But there are those whose faith is weak, or immature, or has been damaged by false teaching, robbing them of hope. Again, what we believe in our heart and what we know in our minds. Our minds must be renewed.

I love what John wrote, If our hearts condemn us, God is greater than our hearts, and knows all things. And going on, If our hearts condemn us not, we have confidence before God.

Is that not what we want? Confidence before God?

1 John 3
18 My little children, let us not love in word, neither in tongue; but in deed and in truth.
19 And hereby we know that we are of the truth, and shall assure our hearts before him.
20 For if our heart condemn us, God is greater than our heart, and knoweth all things.
21 Beloved, if our heart condemn us not, then have we confidence toward God.
22 And whatsoever we ask, we receive of him, because we keep his commandments, and do those things that are pleasing in his sight.
23 And this is his commandment, That we should believe on the name of his Son Jesus Christ, and love one another, as he gave us commandment.

There is no way we are going to have confidence before God, if we are going to base that on our ability to act and think and speak right all the time. Well, if we want to try to lie to our selves we can muster a false sense of confidence, but I think that's going to fall really flat to a true child of God.

But if we are honest with ourselves, honest with God, we know we are disqualified. Only in Christ can we be completely accepted by our Holy God. Only in complete righteousness, start to finish, no coverups, no lies, no pretending, no rose glasses.

Only in Christ, having died with Him, being born from God a New Creation, rightous and holy. Only in this are we accepted by God. And in Christ, we are comletely accepted. His work was not lacking.

OK. Sorry to write a book, if anyone actually reads this far! Gotta run! God bless!

Much love!
 

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Only in Christ can we be completely accepted by our Holy God. Only in complete righteousness, start to finish, no coverups, no lies, no pretending, no rose glasses.

Only in Christ, having died with Him, being born from God a New Creation, righteous and holy. Only in this are we accepted by God. And in Christ, we are completely accepted. the key Only in Christ actually i dont do books lol
We should have the testimony of a changed, redeemed life. But there are those whose faith is weak, or immature, or has been damaged by false teaching, robbing them of hope. Again, what we believe in our heart and what we know in our minds. Our minds must be renewed.
agreed wholeheartedly . i read a lot of post from different posters . to be quite honest at times i stand on my head in

amazement . where do they come up with this stuff.
i see qnat starining 101 for instance the topic how do you know your saved. well for one i would hope you was there. 2. i would hope the Holy Spirit had drawn you. 3. i would hope no one talked you into getting saved. ( seen that ) the real deal is the Holy spirit will make a change in your heart. i often use the story how the grinch stole Christmas . a older man named bro chaulk when asked how he was. would say in him . so a person will know a old time preacher man use to say if you can get saved and not know it. then you can lose it and not know it..

By faith in Christ we have access to the grace in which we stand. Our part is faith. His part is grace. In His grace we stand.
But without that faith, how do we stand?
w/o faith it is impossible to plz GOD . Grace is better experienced than understood.if noah found Grace In the world he lived in. so can we
 
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@Renniks, So...when I worry about, say...how I will pay the rent because I was laid off, am I abiding? Because He said don't worry about what you will eat, wear (and by extension, where you will live and sleep).

Only if you let your worry lead to disbelief. If you still have faith as small as a mustard seed, you are secure in him. That's why I say you have to decide to walk away from him. It's doesn't happen by accident.[/QUOTE]

We aren't connecting here somehow. The worry IS disbelief of what He said.
 

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Hello Enoch111, ...well, you've probably heard all these contentions before, but here we go again...
The thief was not in paradise 'today', for Jesus himself was not in paradise that day. He was in the grave for 3 days, and he walked on earth for 40 more days, before he ascended into heaven. That is, no one preceded Christ into heaven, for there was not an empty throne at the right-hand side of God while others walked around in heaven. The gates to heaven were not opened until Christ ascended, for both, this showed God's approval of his sacrifice (he was truly perfect i.e. did not sin), and that he was finally seated on his throne prepared to judge the world.

Arguably, all the quotes that you cited could mean 'call upon the name of the Lord, continuously, and unto death'. And I believe that this is a more probable and reasonable understanding. For, who can call on the Lord one day, then deny him the next, and still be saved?
Those who renounce Christ will not be saved, nor those planted among the shallow ground (believe for a while, then devil snatches their faith away).
I believe that it is the state of one's convictions upon their death-bed, that will determine their eternal standing with God. And this will only be revealed on Judgement Day. All those who have died either with or without the Lord, are asleep waiting for Christ's second coming.

So, @Seasoned by Grace , this is a partial answer to your OP also. Thanks!

All this hard work, but then leave us wondering how to fit in the verse from the thief on the cross passage?? o_O you give no explanation on what you think about that verse, you only say it can't mean today...
 

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All this hard work, but then leave us wondering how to fit in the verse from the thief on the cross passage?? o_O you give no explanation on what you think about that verse, you only say it can't mean today...
I spent a whole paragraph explaining the multiple reasons why it can't mean today, a whole paragraph?
Sorry SBG, I'm not following your contention?
 

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I spent a whole paragraph explaining the multiple reasons why it can't mean today, a whole paragraph?
Sorry SBG, I'm not following your contention?

I'm not contending! You said it can't mean today where it says today. You gave some valid evidence of why it can't have meant today. But then you didn't give any way to look at the verse with the word today in it, like...was it a mistranslation? How should the verse read? Was the verse added later? Was the word today added later? You left me hanging as to that verse. You didn't work it in, you seemed to me to have dismissed it.
 

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I'm not contending! You said it can't mean today where it says today. You gave some valid evidence of why it can't have meant today. But then you didn't give any way to look at the verse with the word today in it, like...was it a mistranslation? How should the verse read? Was the verse added later? Was the word today added later? You left me hanging as to that verse. You didn't work it in, you seemed to me to have dismissed it.
Gotcha, sorry, thank you for that!
The comma belongs after the word 'today'.
It's not, 'verily I say unto you, today you will be with me in paradise.'
But, it's rather, 'verily I say unto you today, you will be with me in paradise.'
It's an expression, as in, mark my words this very day, or, as clear as I am talking to you today, my words will come to pass.

The emphasis is on this vow, because in those days, the concept was completely antithetical to any Jew’s understanding on how to receive God's approbation.

Read Psalms, or even Job, the concept was that God only favours the righteous, ....this is elementary enough, no need to elaborate.

And yet, here's a man, tried for a Capital Crime, cursed by God by hanging on a tree, and then Jesus looks at everyone and says, 'this man will be entering heaven', in direct contrast to the understanding of living by The Law. So, Jesus' meaning is actually 'This criminal will be in heaven, but not you scribes and pharisees, …with all your phylacteries, scrolls and fastidious attention to the Law (pseudo piety)'.

It was a novel (faith over works) and remarkable statement at that time (The Law was still in place), and Jesus was affirming the veracity of his prophecy by emphasizing today. i.e. Mark my words this very day.
 
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Grace is a gift that enables us to do things...not to be forgiven things. Quite the opposite. We will be judged harder under grace. Mercy is not the same as grace. God has always been merciful...but grace comes from the resurrection power of Christ.
not to be forgiven things. ? why do you think Grace is ? Grace is the divine favor of GOD mercy comes with Grace Lamentations 3 : 22 It is of the Lord's mercies that we are not consumed, because his compassions fail not. mercy is defined as compassionate or kindly forbearance shown toward an offender, an enemy, or other person in one's power; compassion, pity, or benevolence: --what do we as use to be unsaved people deserve ? we deserve HELL but when we get saved we are justified /declared not Guilty ..just as if we had never sinned which is Grace and mercy

we he forgave us of our sins he had mercy on us and forgave us Grace
 

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not to be forgiven things. ? why do you think Grace is ? Grace is the divine favor of GOD mercy comes with Grace Lamentations 3 : 22 It is of the Lord's mercies that we are not consumed, because his compassions fail not. mercy is defined as compassionate or kindly forbearance shown toward an offender, an enemy, or other person in one's power; compassion, pity, or benevolence: --what do we as use to be unsaved people deserve ? we deserve HELL but when we get saved we are justified /declared not Guilty ..just as if we had never sinned which is Grace and mercy

we he forgave us of our sins he had mercy on us and forgave us Grace


Grace and mercy are very different. We are getting a lot of confusion by conflating things that aren't the same. Like faith and hope. Like holiness and righteousness.

The reason they are different words is because they are unique to themselves.

God has always been merciful...but until Jesus came to earth...mankind didn't have the ability to obey God's laws. Grace is that empowering of men to be as Jesus. That is what the gospel is based on...new life and power in Christ. NOT a new level of constant forgiveness. That is the false gospel that Paul warns us about.
 

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Only if you let your worry lead to disbelief. If you still have faith as small as a mustard seed, you are secure in him. That's why I say you have to decide to walk away from him. It's doesn't happen by accident.

We aren't connecting here somehow. The worry IS disbelief of what He said.[/QUOTE]
Is it disbelief that he is the risen Messiah? That's what I'm talking about.
 

Ezra

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Grace and mercy are very different. We are getting a lot of confusion by conflating things that aren't the same. Like faith and hope. Like holiness and righteousness.
no i said they come together as in a package deal your not going to have grace with out mercy.once again mercy is not getting what we deserve .grace follows after not getting it paul wrote saved by Grace
God has always been merciful
was he merciful to the ones who offered strange fire was it mercy when they was hauling the ark of the covenant on a cart. and hit a chug hole. the 2 if memory serves right touched the ark poof burnt toast so if i am saved by grace i am forgiven
..but until Jesus came to earth...mankind didn't have the ability to obey God's laws
the law was our school master until Christ came .the law did nothing more than tell you what sin was . it had no power to save .
 

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We aren't connecting here somehow. The worry IS disbelief of what He said.
Is it disbelief that he is the risen Messiah? That's what I'm talking about.[/QUOTE]

So you only have to believe He rose? You don't have to believe and do the smaller things, like believing and trusting what He said about an earthly thing like provision?
 

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Grace is that empowering of men to be as Jesus. That is what the gospel is based on...new life and power in Christ. NOT a new level of constant forgiveness. That is the false gospel that Paul warns us about.
scripture that says that please