For something touted as a very deep and personal relationship, this sounds very one sided. So we are to pray, to sound like fools to those around us, to ourselves even, and hope that someone is listening?
Plus, if God's will is going to be done regardless, I fail to see how my prayers are going to change his mind. I never understood how Christians reconcile the fact that everyone's choices are known to God in advance, and how you're supposedly going to be judged by the choices you make here on earth.
Doesn't it follow that, before I was even born, God knew whether or not I would be a believer or a heathen? If I can't change God's divine plan for my life, how do I have free will? I doubt that I can make a choice here on earth that God has not already foreseen. Therefore, I can't make a choice that contradicts God's perfect knowledge.
There are Christians that believe we are destined for heaven or hell before we are even born. Pre-destination, I believe it is called. The logic follows, even if it makes God look like a monster. Of course, it then calls into question why Jesus sacrificed himself on the cross. What was the point if we can't choose our own path?
There are so many questions like this. I used to think about this stuff in my high school chapel while the pastors gave their sermons each week.