Proverbs 23:13
[13] Withhold not correction from the child: for if thou beatest him with the rod, he shall not die.
I am not sure what you are telling me with this verse. And I am not following you.
Let's go back a bit. From what I understand, and I may be mistaken, you are telling me that you used to believe a certain way but now have changed. You used to believe (Is. 63:1-6) spoke to Christ when He comes and destroys His enemies. Now, If I understand you, you are saying that is speaking to Christ's sacrifice on the Cross.
Thus the title of this thread, "Do We So Peace", represents how you think believers should act as it is the way Jesus Christ acts and what He has taught us to do.
As a result, any forceful rule by Christ, any destroying by Christ, found in the Bible, will be interpreted in light of Jesus Christ bringing peace and teaching us to be peacemakers also. Thus it will always be interpreted as having been accomplished at the cross, and not some future day of destruction.
Do I understand you correctly?
Stranger