Yes, i believe you do.
Thats true.
To be precise, this is the problem. You can offer a series of ideas, but it is up to the reader to decide for themselves what is applicable. As soon as you start getting personal, it becomes a form of judgementalism. This is a basic reality all teachers and counsellors learn early on. Only when the reader discovers for themselves the truth and how they relate to it, can progress be made.
It is always the problem with dictated ideas, you have to exalt the authority and just accept what they say.
A common symtom is you need to listen to the "right" teacher, or you have been "brain washed" into a certain attitude.
Ironically those who have been brainwashed, look at the rest of the world like they are the true people with insight, while everyone else lives on this delusional plain. You know you have hit the truth, because there are no deluded people, it is different perspectives on ideas or faith or emotional bias. You see the myriad of different insights any one point can have, because none of them threaten ones own position, because it is arrived at freely while considering the other options.
It is why quoting scripture becomes not seeking the truth of God and expositing it, but accepting or rejecting scripture based on preconceived ideas, and if they are contradicted, it is the speaker who is wrong, because scripture could never contradict ones own belief system.
It is why we have theological colleges to study such issues, and test their truth from as many perspectives as possible.
God bless you