I agree...and at times it is quite worrying.
Is that not the danger of becoming religion v relationship?
The couple who first share with us what I call "the deeper things of God" are wonderful people...but I remember walking with the wife once and she shared with me her worry about her husband. he 'fell out of bed in the morning' with the bible in his hand, and studied meanings of words and types, shadows, symbols, Hebrew , Greek, biblical numerology, end time prophesy..and you name it...her worry was , he was so caught up with studies which engaged his mind...he never seemed to pray or invest any time whatsoever with God Himself...his relationship was with the Bible, and not any more with the Author of The Book!!!!