I'd suggest giving this some thought in light of living in communion with God.The Spirit does indeed lead the believer to a life motivated by love. Until that is perfected in you, you obey because you know it's right thing to do more than you obey because you care about other people. It's a growth process.
I believe that God begot us to have a new life so that we can have that life shared with Him. Hm. I think it's time for a new thread!
:)