AMEN, MG!
Which effectively dissolves assurance of God's determination to save us.
It's so ironic that what is supposed to give assurance of salvation actually gives none at all.
If I know that I could be deceived into thinking I am irrevocably saved once and for all and later return to a life of sin only to find that I was never saved, then all I have to rely on is what amounts to "righteousness by sincerity," which may be fine and dandy for type A personalities with strong wills but, for those of us with plenty of "frequent stumbler miles," we need a Saviour we can depend on to pick us up when we fall.
I believed in eternal security for 18 years and all it did for me was to have me thinking I could never be saved because I kept failing the "sincerity" test. I thought: "How many times can I pull this backsliding stunt before God just says " Ephraim is joined to idols—leave him alone" (Hosea 4:17)?
Now that I've learned to "die daily" (1 Corinthians 15:31), my stumblings are increasingly fewer and farther between and I love and trust Him more than ever, so I know God is working on me and now I can concentrate on blessing my family and friends instead of worrying about how I'm going to manage slipping my slimy carcass between a crack between one of those pearly grates.
My dad is still struggling and suffering with this (and he was "saved" when Amos 'n' Andy was still on the radio), so much so that the only preacher he'll listen to anymore is Joel Osteen because he doesn't drag out the "Are you sure you're saved?" routine every Sunday.
Folks are free to believe as they see fit, but:
False assurance? None for me, thanks.

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