It is the height of absurdity to say that God doesn't care whether we obey the 10 Commandments... and such belief is wreaking absolute havoc in the world today.. as people sin with impunity... commit all kinds of evil against their brothers/sisters.. and then scream bloody murder when someone does the same thing to them (whatever you do to the least of My brethren, you do to Me)
I guess you have much to learn about Grace.
Love has always being Gods way from the very beginning. I am sure you know that part of the bible,
1Co 13:1 Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, and have not charity, I am become as sounding brass, or a tinkling cymbal.
1Co 13:2 And though I have the gift of prophecy, and understand all mysteries, and all knowledge; and though I have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, and have not charity, I am nothing.
1Co 13:3 And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give my body to be burned, and have not charity, it profiteth me nothing.
1Co 13:4 Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up,
1Co 13:5 Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil;
1Co 13:6 Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth;
1Co 13:7 Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.
1Co 13:8 Charity never faileth: but whether there be prophecies, they shall fail; whether there be tongues, they shall cease; whether there be knowledge, it shall vanish away.
Thats why Jesus said,
Joh 13:34 A new commandment I give unto you, That ye love one another; as I have loved you, that ye also love one another.
Joh 13:35 By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another.
Do you know why this world has laws, its for the bad people, you know why God gave the Jews teh Law, to show them they where bad.
Gal_3:24 Wherefore the law was our schoolmaster to bring us unto Christ,
that we might be justified by faith.
That is why it says
1Ti 1:9 Knowing this, that the law is not made for a righteous man, but for the lawless and disobedient, for the ungodly and for sinners, for unholy and profane, for murderers of fathers and murderers of mothers, for manslayers,
See whom teh law is for, not those who are in Christ for they have put on His righteousness, but as teh bible says,
Gal 5:4 Christ is become of no effect unto you, whosoever of you are justified by the law; ye are fallen from grace.
Gal 5:5 For we through the Spirit wait for the
hope of righteousness by faith.
Rom 9:31 But Israel, which followed after the law of righteousness, hath not attained to the law of righteousness.
Rom 9:32 Wherefore? Because they sought it not by faith, but as it were by the works of the law.
For they stumbled at that stumblingstone;
Rom_10:4 For Christ is the end of the law for righteousness to every one that believeth.
Rom_8:7 Because the carnal mind is enmity against God: for it is not subject to the law of God, neither indeed can be.
You need to understand Love, and you never will if you dont ask Jesus to show you Love.
Keep the law if you must, do not make it a stumbling block for others, you will have to answer for it one day.
Gal 5:14 For all the law is fulfilled in one word, even in this;
Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself.
Gal 5:18 But if ye be led of the Spirit, ye are not under the law.
Read Galtians 3.0