Well, without wanting to post contrary to my dearest sister on this Forum (see above

), does it mean you haven't received the Spirit? No. Does it mean you haven't received the baptism? The baptism in the Holy Spirit incessantly came with signs in the New Testament, particularly speaking in tongues and prophesying (Acts 2:1-4, Acts 19:1-2, Acts 10:44-46).
Now does that mean it's something to be deeply concerned about? No, not in my book. It is simply something to put before God in prayer. And I can assure you that if you keep devoting yourself to His Presence and keep asking for it, it will come eventually. It is supposed to be an intrinsic part of Christianity. It's just that some have separated it out from the Christian experience as not being necessary, when the real focus should be on is it beneficial. I take the position that it is, so I encourage people to seek it, but with patience and in a Spirit of peace, knowing that your salvation is secure in Christ regardless and that He loves you and will provide you with all good things in the course of due time.
Intersting :)
Okay, I know quite a lot of people who were baptised in the Holy Ghost. ...
Spoke of "the experience"..spoke in tongues at the time...yet ever after that they never spoke in tongues again!!
So, were they un-baptised in the Spirit. ;)
I think not.
Lack of teaching I presume. "To me" the great blockage in the flow of tongues is that people think that God totally takes over. And, because that does not happen...(they receive the Spirit but they know nothing of co-working with Him) they do not yield to the Spirit and "begin to speak in tongues."
Acts 2:4
"And they were all filled with the Holy Ghost, and began to speak with other tongues, as the Spirit gave them utterance."
The words were His, but the speaking was theirs.
Acts 19:6 "
And when Paul had laid [his] hands upon them, the Holy Ghost came on them; and they spake with tongues, and prophesied."
Again..the Holy Ghost came upon them, but they did the speaking...
If we don't speak it doesn't happen.
The misunderstanding is...that when the Holy Spirit falls He takes the tongue and
makes it speak.
Yet it is no different to salvation, we yield to Him , He does not force Himself upon us!!
My dad used to babysit for us on Friday nights while we took the Gospel to the streets. I was baptised in the Holy Ghost on the pervious Sunday night.
I spoke in tongues and was 'drunk' with joy for about 4 hours.
He walked in on Friday afternoon following as usual, and he said " So are you still speaking in tongues?'
I said "No, it didn't happen again".
So he then told me that the gift was mine to use, just as my tongue was mine to use, and speech was mine to use.
I obviously said- " But I don't feel like I did last Sunday night...it's gone"
But we learn that we don't walk by feelings of euphoria or emotions...our walk is faith.
The next afternoon , when the house was quiet... I knelt down with the Lord and said - " Well this feels all wrong Lord, it feels like "I" am doing this not You.. I am now going to pray to You in tongues."
I just did, and never stopped since , now 50 years hence. We all know that in the early days, just like a baby, we only use a few syllables..and the more we use the tongue the great quantity of words flows from us.
So, I said all that to say......I have known people who I am convinced were baptised in the Holy Ghost, yet never gave their tongue to the Lord..
in the misguided belief that if
He doesn't jump in and "take over their tongue" then they were never given a tongue to use in the first place..
Amongst the many, my husband was one of them. His "experience" in the Holy Spirit was powerful...yet he never spoke in tongues. Same reason, - "
he said that he was not going to do anything,
God must do it." God didn't!!!
About six months later a brother said to him, 'Dave, you are missing out, just step out of the boat in faith, and walk toward the Lord.'
Dave knelt down...started praising the Lord unemotionally, and unemotionally took a deep breath and let his tongue speak. He's never stopped yet.
Seen it so often, hence I say NO, I am not a believer that the only evidence of the Baptism of the Spirit is speaking in tongues .
* A passion for the Lord and the radiance of the spirit flowing through a life is much more evidence to me.
Yet the person is sold short if the Enemy can rob them of the blessing of tongues.
Just my two cents :)
Bless you, Helen