But then we come to what it really means to be "in Christ". Just saying the words could be like the drunk in the bar casually saying the name of Jesus as if it were a curse word. Herein is much of the problem for many people and especially those who are supposedly called by God to instruct us so that we might...neat, so then all you gotta do is say "i'm in Christ, and i love love" and the law no longer applies to you then right
"... all come in the unity of the faith, and of the knowledge of the Son of God, unto a perfect man, unto the measure of the stature of the fulness of Christ:
That we henceforth be no more children, tossed to and fro, and carried about with every wind of doctrine, by the sleight of men, and cunning craftiness, whereby they lie in wait to deceive;
But speaking the truth in love, may grow up into him in all things, which is the head, even Christ:" Eph 4:13-15
Who is "in Christ"?