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Hi everyone. New obviously, but here for a singular purpose - finding likeminded people.

I'll shoot it straight : I'm a conservative Christian who is fed up with the way the world is going and how it's being controlled by elitists (though it's really no surprise I suppose).

The people I talk to now are, A) either on my side from a censorship perspective but denounce Christianity/hate Jews, or B) are Christians but don't feel comfortable talking about the issues that really matter. The former generally ends up pissing me off royally but I try to bite my tongue because I still want to lead them to Christ later, and the latter just stops responding to me thinking I'm a "weirdo". I'm really looking for a friend (if I'm lucky maybe two?) that sees things the way I do.

I've got a very wounded past, I sometimes cuss, and have problems with depression, PTSD, pornography use, and suicidal/homicidal thoughts. (If this sounds like a lot to get into bed with, I understand, but I'm actually a good friend.) I rant a lot about censorship and the way big tech is starting to target Christianity and actual truth. It seems everywhere I go I am censored to death. This drives me insane.

I'm far more tolerant than the people I fight against, but when it comes to abortion, homosexuality, sex changes, etc...there is no grey area.

I'm getting all of this out there so that there are no surprises. I love guns, beer, hard rock music, and deep conversation. I have a dark sense of humor. Nothing offends me!! ...except for jew hate and making fun of God/Jesus...then I'll gladly tell you how hot hell is, and make you feel awful for going there when you die. I'm finding that people like me are becoming exceedingly rare, and so I'm reaching out because maybe you're like me too and are not sure if there's anyone out there like you.

If this is you too and want somebody to talk to, please PM me.
If this isn't you, feel free to leave the thread empty, I'm used to rejection and it's normal for me.

Thanks
 
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You mustn't have read the manual on self sabotage. The first chapter declares it a very lonely road and only to be undertaken by those who think they are right :)
 

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You mustn't have read the manual on self sabotage. The first chapter declares it a very lonely road and only to be undertaken by those who think they are right :)

Dude, what?

You didn't message me, and this seems pretty condescending. What was your point exactly?

You know what you can do, and do it intensely. Please.

( :) )
 
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You should have good fortune in finding friends. I will pray for this to happen.

You sound exactly like my husband down to each detail. Like, ya'll would hit it off instantly. Especially if you like serious debates and analytical discussions.

I don't know if I myself am who you're looking for but you are definitely not alone. Please let us know how this goes.
 

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You should have good fortune in finding friends. I will pray for this to happen.

You sound exactly like my husband down to each detail. Like, ya'll would hit it off instantly. Especially if you like serious debates and analytical discussions.

I don't know if I myself am who you're looking for but you are definitely not alone. Please let us know how this goes.

Thanks, feel free to have your husband reach out!
 

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ohhhh, so you're mad already....sorry..... Hang in there mate, there are better ways of seeing the world! :)

Niiiiice gaslight.

And then you flip it so you look like a positive person. With your forked tongue. I know your type. Get away from me.
 

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Niiiiice gaslight.

And then you flip it so you look like a positive person. With your forked tongue. I know your type. Get away from me.
I suppose you're of the view that your view of the world can't be improved on? If this is the case, the only option left is to keep treading the same ole grapes around and around and around!
 

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Don't sweat Quiet. He is NOT a conservative when it comes to politics.

You will find several people here of like mind, you just need to get acquainted with the place.

I knew he was a leftist. They always start trouble and hurt Christians.

That's my aim is to meet people, but satan gets in the way. It's a shame.
 

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I knew he was a leftist. They always start trouble and hurt Christians.

That's my aim is to meet people, but satan gets in the way. It's a shame.

My advice is to develop a thick skin if you wanna stick around on the Christian forums; any of them. There are a lot of good people, even though you may not agree with them on everything. But you will have to learn to be tolerant, as much as is in you anyway. Quiet has some good qualities just like a lot of people here do, but you eventually learn what to expect from each person on matters of politics, eschatology, soteriology, hermeneutics, etc.

Just settle in, and don't wear your heart in your sleeve. Put on some armor and expect to encounter a little brushback on a continual basis, and you will be fine.

God bless,
Hidden In Him
 

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My advice is to develop a thick skin if you wanna stick around on the Christian forums; any of them. There are a lot of good people, even though you may not agree with them on everything. But you will have to learn to be tolerant, as much as is in you anyway. Quiet has some good qualities just like a lot of people here do, but you eventually learn what to expect from each person on matters of politics, eschatology, soteriology, hermeneutics, etc.

Just settle in, and don't wear your heart in your sleeve. Put on some armor and expect to encounter a little brushback on a continual basis, and you will be fine.

God bless,
Hidden In Him


Hey, no disrespect to you. I appreciate the response. But on a Christian forum, one should not have to worry about "having a thick skin" any more than one should go into church with their shields up and a closed heart. This does not facilitate growth, in fact it poisons the well.


Got CENSORED here too. It's a shame.

Guess we are asking satan to kiss us on the cheek.
 
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Hey, no disrespect to you. I appreciate the response. But on a Christian forum, one should not have to worry about "having a thick skin" any more than one should go into church with their shields up and a closed heart. This does not facilitate growth, in fact it poisons the well.

Not a matter of what should be. Most here would agree with you on this, but the fact is that everywhere you go you will encounter disagreement at the very least, and downright hostility at the worst. The well as you say is continually under threat of being poisoned, and not just by Christians or Christians so-called, but by atheists and Gnostics and unbelievers who join here as well. The primary thing to worry about is not letting yourself get poisoned.

Is what it is. If there were a solution it would have been found by now.
Regardless of what Quiet thinks he is, he is NOT a Christian.

And this right here is why there is so much strife. He may not be what you want him to be, but you have no grounds for saying he is not a Christian. He simply has different views on politics.

Good luck, my friend, but I've been around awhile now, and judging by your posts, you may be only happy at a place that tolerates very very little in the way of opposing views or opinions. Those places are usually deader than a doornail.

Sorry if this offends you, Just telling you like it is.
 
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And this right here is why there is so much strife. He may not be what you want him to be, but you have no grounds for saying he is not a Christian. He simply has different views on politics.
Thanks for the response.

Politics reflect the way we view the world. The way we view the world can easily be reduced down to what our core beliefs are.

Conservatives = man is flawed, the world is flawed, results are what counts
Leftists = man is good/god, utopia is possible, intentions are what counts

This also has everything to do with his character. By gliding under the radar and making jabs at me within the guidelines of the message board rules tells me he is skilled in this sort of thing, attacking Christians and hurting the ones who are vulnerable through infiltration of the mind and emotions. This has everything to do with hell and nothing to do with heaven.

We are called to identify the tactics of the enemy. I have done so.


Good luck, my friend, but I've been around awhile now, and judging by your posts, you may be only happy at a place that tolerates very very little in the way of opposing views or opinions. Those places are usually deader than a doornail.

Sorry if this offends you, Just telling you like it is.


It doesn't offend me, thanks for telling me like it is. As we go darker into the night before His return, our tolerances must be tightened. Evil shall not be allowed to prosper, and the Christian should guard his or her heart from the likeness thereof.
 

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The very fact that I am being censored here as well is speaking volumes to me about how much foothold the enemy has gained on even "Christian" websites.

The enemy's attacks are allowed to stay, but the proper identification of such is censored and deleted.

Truth is not the focus of this community. (I do not intend to stay, but if you are of sound mind, I'm simply looking for people to connect with.)

I did not intend to get wrapped up in satanic war games. But here we are.
 

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The very fact that I am being censored here as well is speaking volumes to me about how much foothold the enemy has gained on even "Christian" websites.

The enemy's attacks are allowed to stay, but the proper identification of such is censored and deleted.

Truth is not the focus of this community. (I do not intend to stay, but if you are of sound mind, I'm simply looking for people to connect with.)

I did not intend to get wrapped up in satanic war games. But here we are.

The wheat and the tares MUST grow together...

Matt. 13:30
"Let both grow together until the harvest: and in the time of harvest I will say to the reapers, Gather ye together first the tares, and bind them in bundles to burn them: but gather the wheat into my barn."

 
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