1) What's your definition of hell?
There is no “hell of eternal torment” in the Bible. In order to torment the dead, they must be alive in order to feel pain and to suffer.
“The dead know nothing”…..(Eccl 9:5, 10) They have no consciousness, so there can be no suffering.
No law of God was punishable by torture of any kind…..the highest penalty for any crime, was death.
When the Israelites fell to worshipping false gods by sacrificing their children in the fire, God was appalled!
He said via his prophet Jeremiah….
”They have built the high places of Toʹpheth, which is in the Valley of the Son of Hinʹnom, in order to burn their sons and their daughters in the fire, something that I had not commanded and that had never even come into my heart.’” (Jer 7:31)
If God condemned the Israelites for doing something so heinous to their children, then why would he commit that atrocity himself on his own children?
When Jesus spoke about “Gehenna” (often mistranslated as “hell”) he was alluding to that same Valley of Hinnom where the sacrifice of children was performed. God commanded that it be turned into a garbage dump where fires were kept burning day and night by the addition of brimstone (sulfur) to consume the rubbish.
The carcasses of dead animals and also the bodies of executed criminals (not considered worthy of a decent burial) were thrown into Gehenna for disposal, not for torment. The dead cannot be tormented or suffer in any way. “Gehenna” became a symbol of eternal death (the opposite of eternal life) so that those in Gehenna would never see life again in any form. The fire never went out and the maggots finished off what the fires missed….wherever there is dead flesh, there are maggots. The symbolism was lost on those who took Jesus’ words literally.
Souls are
annihilated because God has no purpose in keeping the wicked alive….they will simply not be resurrected. Only God knows who is in this symbolic place.
“Hades” which is also erroneously translated as “hell” is simply the common grave of all mankind. We all go to this “hell” which is no more scary than simply going to “sleep”. Jesus will resurrect those who sleep in death, like he did with Lazarus. (John 11:11-14)
2) How do you see the final judgment playing out?
The whole purpose of allowing satan to have a free hand in tempting the human race to leave God and do the devil’s bidding, was to serve as a model and to set precedents for all time to come regarding who is the rightful ruler of mankind. Satan did not challenge God’s power (which he knew was greater than his own) but he challenged God’s rightful Sovereignty…his right to rule and to set the terms under which his gift of life should be observed.
Right at the beginning, the devil had already made himself God’s adversary by tempting the woman to disobey the only command that carried the penalty of death if it was disobeyed.
If satan was to “become like God” and gain the worship of the humans, (which was his aim) he first had to separate them from their Creator. His success with the woman placed Adam in a precarious position….it divided his loyalties. The consequences of his decision would determine the outcome for all his future children.
”That is why, just as through one man sin entered into the world and death through sin, and so death spread to all men because they had all sinned“. (Rom 5:12)
Sin did not come to the human race through the woman, because she was “thoroughly deceived”….but Adam was not. His decision to join her rather than to lose her, is what condemned all of us to inherit what his action passed on to us.
3) Will everyone be saved in the end?
NO. Why would God want those in his kingdom who by their very nature are incorrigibly disobedient?
All God has ever required of his people is obedience. It’s not rocket science….free will was a gift, which if used unselfishly, would be a blessing to all….but when it was abused, it became a curse that affected everyone…including the angels, because an angel was the first one to abuse his free will to fulfill selfish ambitions.
Every heinous act ever perpetrated by man upon his fellow man, was an abuse of free will. We had to learn how to drive it so that these abuses could never happen again. There is now a record of all of the devil’s attempts to get humans to disobey God and to obey him instead, holding out “freedom” to do as you wish, instead of having to obey God as the bait. It has worked very well for him…..but this also works for God because all of us are having our free will tested….even Jesus was tempted by the devil in an attempt to get Jesus to worship him and to disobey his God. There is the motive right there…..this is the devil’s agenda.
We have the choice to do as Adam did, leading to disastrous consequences….or to follow the example of Jesus who always deferred to God’s written word in his responses. (Luke 4: 1-13)
4) Will the Lord who taught us to love our enemies incinerate his?
God has no intention of incinerating his enemies literally. Fire is used in the scriptures as a symbol of everlasting destruction….usually nothing remains after a fire, but ashes…..so the reality is, ashes are dust and that is what Adam was told at the very beginning….
”for dust you are, and to dust you will return”…..
That is what death is….a return to the state you were in before you were conceived…..you simply did not exist…and if you have a nature that is contrary to what God requires in the citizens of his Kingdom, you will have your right to life, cancelled. How is that not fair and just?
When Jesus taught us to “love our enemies” it was “agape” not “philea”….”agape” is love based on principle, not emotion. You can “love” someone in the sense of not hating them or wishing harm to come to them, but leaving all retribution to God. God hates the sin, not the sinner. All sinners have opportunity to repent before the judgment comes.
By the way we live our life and the choices we make, God is judging our worthiness to benefit from the precious blood of his son….never wasted on those who think that they can dictate their own terms to the Creator.