ok, but i guess you prolly wouldnt like my interpretation of that passage much either!
suffice it to say that that one likely does not mean what we first imagine either, as you might note by the first v, and the “if” that comes next; why would Paul say “if” there? “And having this confidence” is another—confidence in what? Prolly not what you first think, i bet
so while i dont know, i suggest that both v21 and v23 are being misinterpreted, at least, and the whole passage changes when read from a different perspective, ok? See, it can be easy to imagine that Paul is saying “i wish i was absent from the body, and present with the Lord” when Paul never said “to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord” anyway, and what he did do was cleverly write a passage so as to illuminate those who think that way
i suggest that it is more likely that Paul is saying something like “id rather be somewhere else communing with Yah, but ‘when in Rome’ is what i need to do for you guys right now”