Tearing down and beginning again many times is the best thing for you. It certainly is for me.My problem, from the beginning, has been with having to constantly tear down and begin again, but this time without some preconceived notion that I heard somewhere and latched onto, which caused me to ignore some verse or verses.
The following verses for many years now have described how I regularly am willing to tear it all down and start it all over again as God directs me:
"When thou art bidden of any man to a wedding, sit not down in the highest room; lest a more honourable man than thou be bidden of him;
And he that bade thee and him come and say to thee, Give this man place; and thou begin with shame to take the lowest room.
But when thou art bidden, go and sit down in the lowest room; that when he that bade thee cometh, he may say unto thee, Friend, go up higher: then shalt thou have worship in the presence of them that sit at meat with thee.
For whosoever exalteth himself shall be abased; and he that humbleth himself shall be exalted." Luke 14:8-11
Proceed all the way to the bottom [the lowest room] holding onto nothing but God alone and then let Him reinstate anything worthwhile or correct and replace anything that does not fit into what He ultimately has for you.
Will you change? Probably!
Will you grow? Hopefully!