I never said anything like this. Just keep in mind that what you need is not necessarily what others need. For me, it was not an intellectual argument on-line or the presentation of rock solid facts.
It was a transcending experience. It was the Holy Spirit coming to me in what I learned yesrs later is called,
Prevenient grace.
You are at a disadvantage. Whereas you have an argument, we have an experience.
That is horrible but I'm not sure what that has to do with what we are talking about. My theology descends from another martyr,
Michael Servetus.
I hope you are not setting up a Strawman that unless every so-called Christian lives a perfect life, it is all phooey. It is said church is a hospital for sinners, not a hotel for Saints. Power is a powerful seductress, even for men of God.