When you look at the marriage details in the time of Jesus the following happened.
Here's a quick overview as if you look on line for this topic you can learn a lot more.
There is the endowment paid to the brides father....Jesus paid the ransom on the cross.
There is the engagement....the church begins.
The bridegroom goes back to his fathers house with out the bride and prepares a place to live. Jesus ascends into heaven and is preparing a place to live.
When the father is ready he sends the son for his bride....Jesus returns for the church at an unexpected moment.
The bridegroom and groomsmen return for the bride stopping at the edge of town... Christ returns and gets his bride. In the clouds
Then U-turns...
The groom take his bride to the fathers house....Christ returns with His bride to heaven.
The marriage feast occurs....the marriage supper of the Lamb.
The pre-trib U-turn actually follows a pattern.
Except it is not until the NJ descends out of heaven from God does the bride then begin living with the groom.
John 14:2 In my Father's house are many mansions: if it were not so, I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for you.
3 And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again, and receive you unto myself; that where I am, there ye may be also.
Revelation 19:7 Let us be glad and rejoice, and give honour to him: for the marriage of the Lamb is come, and his wife hath made herself ready.
Revelation 21:2 And I John saw the holy city, new Jerusalem, coming down from God out of heaven, prepared as a bride adorned for her husband.
When is a bride typically adorned for her husband? When this is initially true---for the marriage of the Groom is come, and his wife hath made herself ready?
Or much later, such as a thousand years later? Since Premils, such as yourself, typically take Revelation 21:2 to be meaning a thousand years plus a little season, plus a GWTJ, post that of when Revelation 19:7 is meaning.
We then end up with this scenario.
for the marriage of the Lamb is come, and his wife hath made herself ready. But His wife is not adorned for Him until over a thousand years later.
Since you appear to be an expert on weddings, does that fit how a typical wedding goes down? for the marriage of the Groom is come, and his wife hath made herself ready. But it is much later when the wife adorns herself for her husband, that she does not do that when the marriage is come, and that the wife has made herself ready.
The reason I also brought up John 14:2-3 is simple. Look what the text says-- I go to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again, and receive you unto myself; that where I am, there ye may be also
And that the ones He is talking to here would not be anyone that is raptured when He comes. They would all be long dead before that event occurs. Therefore, the ones He is talking to at the time would be the dead in Christ that rise first. But if they are already with Him, how do we make sense of the text that it is not until He comes again, that He then receives them unto Himself; that where He is, there they may be also?
Thus why I'm open minded that soul sleep could be Biblical though it currently is not my position. Plus, it seems obvious that the place He went to prepare is the NJ that comes down from God out of heaven(Revelation 21:2)
But let's not be logical about anything. Right? It's no fun when one is being logical about something since it tends to throw a monkey wrench into how we have been interpreting some of these things the entire time.