The answer is easy, but you make it difficult.
First, I do not deny that "Jesus rose from the dead BODILY." But your own words have told you what you have not reckoned with... Yes, He rose from the dead bodily, as you say, which was in the world - but He also ascended into heaven, meaning that He went to the Father (as He said), whom is only spirit.
But why would you say there is no hope in becoming One with God, just as Christ has? Indeed, there is no hope in the flesh which is under the curse of death, but rather in God (whom is spirit). This is the very essence of the good news of the gospel, that we may be born again of the spirit of God, and live.
So, when you ask for chapter and verse, it is not enough. The answer is many books. But if you do not have the faith to see it in these few verses, it is because you have not eyes to see - not because I have not given you enough already:
John 4:24
God is Spirit, and those who worship Him must worship in spirit and truth.”
John 16:28
I came forth from the Father and have come into the world. Again,
I leave the world and go to the Father.”
John 20:17
Jesus said to her, “Do not cling to Me, for
I have not yet ascended to My Father; but go to My brethren and say to them, ‘
I am ascending to My Father and your Father, and
to My God and your God.’”