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It really bothers me when I read a long, well thought out response to a difficult question and then a dismissive response like this.....

It only encourages people to give one word responses or ignore you completely

I know I will never bother to be thoughtful in response to your questions



He makes those short responses because he can't find anything in the Bible saying that Jesus chose a woman to become His Apostle. :D
 

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Hello UHCAIan,

God did not call any woman to become priests because it is not their role to become priests. That is very clear in the Scriptures. God created men and women equally, but DIFFERENTLY. He assigned them different roles. Women can speak in Church because they are allowed to pray in Church. Furthermore, souls are not saved by a man's or woman's leadership because salvation comes only from God and not from any human.



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Not sure if I understand what you mean by priest here but God has called each and every man, woman and child to be priests to Him. Each of us are part of a royal priesthood. 1Peter 2:9
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Not sure if I understand what you mean by priest here but God has called each and every man, woman and child to be priests to Him. Each of us are part of a royal priesthood. 1Peter 2:9
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By "priest", I was referring to being an "ordained priest." You are correct that God called everyone to be priests to Him. By this, we are all called to spread the Gospel and even evangelize. I am a female, and I can preach the Gospel and evangelize, but I cannot be an "ordained priest" or "pastor."This is why I stated in my earlier post, that a woman can preach, but she does not need to be a preacher to do it.

Only men can be called to the ordination of the priesthood because men represent Christ, who is Head of the Church. A woman cannot represent Christ. In the Bible, the woman is the Body of Christ, which is the Church. And of course, the Church (the woman) can also preach and evangelize, but she cannot be an ordained priest because that role is reserved for the man. :)
 

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With the shortage of priests - I really hope the Catholic Church will ordain deacons. It is biblical and deacons run a lot of parishes today.
 

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With the shortage of priests - I really hope the Catholic Church will ordain deacons. It is biblical and deacons run a lot of parishes today.

Actually, the number of Catholic priests have increased over the years especially in the continents of Asia and Africa. According to Statistics:

There was also an increase in the number of bishops, from 4,946 in 2007 to 5,002 in 2008 (up 1.13%). The growth in Africa (up 1.83%) and the Americas (up 1.57%) was significant, while in Asia (up 1.09%) and in Europe (up 0.70%) the values are below the overall average. In Oceania during the same period there was a 3% decrease in the number of bishops.

There was also a slight increase (around 1% between 2000 and 2008) for diocesan and religious priests, whose numbers grew from 405,178 in 2000 to 409,166 in 2008.

The number of clergy by continent has Europe on top, with almost half of the world's priests still residing there (47.1%), followed by the Americas (30%), then Asia (13.2%) and Africa (8.7%) and finally Oceania (1.2%).

http://www.zenit.org/article-28425?l=english




 

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By "priest", I was referring to being an "ordained priest." You are correct that God called everyone to be priests to Him. By this, we are all called to spread the Gospel and even evangelize. I am a female, and I can preach the Gospel and evangelize, but I cannot be an "ordained priest" or "pastor."This is why I stated in my earlier post, that a woman can preach, but she does not need to be a preacher to do it.

Only men can be called to the ordination of the priesthood because men represent Christ, who is Head of the Church. A woman cannot represent Christ. In the Bible, the woman is the Body of Christ, which is the Church. And of course, the Church (the woman) can also preach and evangelize, but she cannot be an ordained priest because that role is reserved for the man. :)

I agree and again I think that the man must be married with children as per the scriptures.

He must manage his own family well, with children who respect and obey him. For if a man cannot manage his own household, how can he take care of God's church? 1Tim 3:4&5
 

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I agree and again I think that the man must be married with children as per the scriptures.

He must manage his own family well, with children who respect and obey him. For if a man cannot manage his own household, how can he take care of God's church? 1Tim 3:4&5

Hello Jiggfly,

It does not matter if the man is single or married. St. Paul was single and he managed God's Church very well. In the Catholic Church, chastity is not a dogma. It is a discipline. The Catholic Church have accepted married priests into the Church. In fact, an ordained deacon in my Church (who passed away last year) was married. However, in God's kingdom, there is no marriage.

At the beginning of the Bible, one would find the marriage between man and woman (Adam and Eve), but this marriage between man and woman is pointing to something even better and greater, which is found in the end of the Bible...the marriage between Christ and His Church. Our priests chose to take the vow of chastity because they prefer to be one with God rather than to be one with a woman. :)

Luke 20:34-35 And Jesus said to them: The children of this world marry, and are given in marriage: But they that shall be accounted worthy of that world, and of the resurrection from the dead, shall neither be married, nor take wives.

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Hello Jiggfly,

It does not matter if the man is single or married. St. Paul was single and he managed God's Church very well. In the Catholic Church, chastity is not a dogma. It is a discipline. The Catholic Church have accepted married priests into the Church. In fact, an ordained deacon in my Church (who passed away last year) was married. However, in God's kingdom, there is no marriage.

At the beginning of the Bible, one would find the marriage between man and woman (Adam and Eve), but this marriage between man and woman is pointing to something even better and greater, which is found in the end of the Bible...the marriage between Christ and His Church. Our priests chose to take the vow of chastity because they prefer to be one with God rather than to be one with a woman. :)

Luke 20:34-35 And Jesus said to them: The children of this world marry, and are given in marriage: But they that shall be accounted worthy of that world, and of the resurrection from the dead, shall neither be married, nor take wives.

In Christ,
Selene

Maybe it's inline with religious doctrine but it sure doesn't seem to be inline with the scripture in 1 Tim. 3. If you have a different interpretation of this scripture please share with us.
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Luke 20:34

The people of the resurection,,,,,,,, They were trying to trip Jesus up by asking, Who's wife will a woman be if her husband dies and she marries another?,,


Those who are found worthy are the ones who die in Christ. In heaven they wont be married.

Shouldn't we be used to Jesus speaking in such away?


If this scripture were meaning as only those who aren't married are worthy, that would contradict all the rest of the Bible. Marriage between a man and woman only lasts through this life. In the next life there will be no marriage.

I believe in another book Jesus said, "They shall be like the angels. Being neither married nor given in marriage."
 

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Maybe it's inline with religious doctrine but it sure doesn't seem to be inline with the scripture in 1 Tim. 3. If you have a different interpretation of this scripture please share with us.
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Hi Jiggfly,

In 1 Timothy 3, St. Paul is telling Timothy the kind of character a bishop or priest should have. St. Paul is not making marriage a requirement because he himself is single and even stated that it is good to be single (1 Corinthians 7:32-34). St. Paul was single and he never got married. St. Paul said the following:

1 Timothy 3:1-5 A faithful saying: if a man desire the office of a bishop, he desireth a good work. It behoveth therefore a bishop to be blameless, the husband of one wife, sober, prudent, of good behaviour, chaste, given to hospitality, a teacher, Not given to wine, no striker, but modest, not quarrelsome, not covetous, but One that ruleth well his own house, having his children in subjection with all chastity. But if a man know not how to rule his own house, how shall he take care of the church of God?

In the following verses above, St. Paul was referring to the character of the bishop. He is not saying that it is a requirement that the bishop be married. He meant that in the case of marriage, the bishop should be married to only one wife (not two or three). In those days, it was common to have more than one wife (especially among the pagans). Polygamy is considered against God's law, and 1 Timothy 3:2 is one of the biblical verses that Catholics use to show that marriage is between only one man and one woman.

In Christ,
Selene
 

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Luke 20:34

The people of the resurection,,,,,,,, They were trying to trip Jesus up by asking, Who's wife will a woman be if her husband dies and she marries another?,,


Those who are found worthy are the ones who die in Christ. In heaven they wont be married.

Shouldn't we be used to Jesus speaking in such away?


If this scripture were meaning as only those who aren't married are worthy, that would contradict all the rest of the Bible. Marriage between a man and woman only lasts through this life. In the next life there will be no marriage.

I believe in another book Jesus said, "They shall be like the angels. Being neither married nor given in marriage."

I was not putting down marriage in any way. I never said that married people are unworthy and single people are more worthy. Marriage is actually one of the seven sacraments in the Catholic and Orthodox Churches. Because it is a sacrament, it is regarded as sacred and holy. Our priests and nuns chose to remain single because they want to be devoted to God rather than to a wife or husband.

Our priests and our nuns are already married, but in a different way than you think. A nun is married to Christ because she remains devoted to Him in her service to Him. A priest (who is representative of Christ as Head of the Church) is married to the Church as he serves the Church. This kind of marriage symbolizes the marriage in Heaven between Christ and His Church. This is why a woman cannot be an ordained priest. The priest is a representative of Christ who is Head of the Church. And Christ is the bridegroom while His Church is the bride. A female priest in marriage to the Church (which is also a female) is wrong.

Just as the union between man and woman would bring forth a life into this world (which in this case would be a baby)........the union between Christ and His Church brings forth eternal life. A marriage between two females does not bring any life at all.
 

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Hi Jiggfly,

In 1 Timothy 3, St. Paul is telling Timothy the kind of character a bishop or priest should have. St. Paul is not making marriage a requirement because he himself is single and even stated that it is good to be single (1 Corinthians 7:32-34). St. Paul was single and he never got married. St. Paul said the following:

1 Timothy 3:1-5 A faithful saying: if a man desire the office of a bishop, he desireth a good work. It behoveth therefore a bishop to be blameless, the husband of one wife, sober, prudent, of good behaviour, chaste, given to hospitality, a teacher, Not given to wine, no striker, but modest, not quarrelsome, not covetous, but One that ruleth well his own house, having his children in subjection with all chastity. But if a man know not how to rule his own house, how shall he take care of the church of God?

In the following verses above, St. Paul was referring to the character of the bishop. He is not saying that it is a requirement that the bishop be married. He meant that in the case of marriage, the bishop should be married to only one wife (not two or three). In those days, it was common to have more than one wife (especially among the pagans). Polygamy is considered against God's law, and 1 Timothy 3:2 is one of the biblical verses that Catholics use to show that marriage is between only one man and one woman.

In Christ,
Selene

One who does not have a family does not know how to rule a family do they?
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I was not putting down marriage in any way. I never said that married people are unworthy and single people are more worthy. Marriage is actually one of the seven sacraments in the Catholic and Orthodox Churches. Because it is a sacrament, it is regarded as sacred and holy. Our priests and nuns chose to remain single because they want to be devoted to God rather than to a wife or husband.

Our priests and our nuns are already married, but in a different way than you think. A nun is married to Christ because she remains devoted to Him in her service to Him. A priest (who is representative of Christ as Head of the Church) is married to the Church as he serves the Church. This kind of marriage symbolizes the marriage in Heaven between Christ and His Church. This is why a woman cannot be an ordained priest. The priest is a representative of Christ who is Head of the Church. And Christ is the bridegroom while His Church is the bride. A female priest in marriage to the Church (which is also a female) is wrong.

Just as the union between man and woman would bring forth a life into this world (which in this case would be a baby)........the union between Christ and His Church brings forth eternal life. A marriage between two females does not bring any life at all.

Can a nun marry a priest? Seems that they are already married symbolically.
 

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One who does not have a family does not know how to rule a family do they?
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Just because a person is single and don't have a wife and children does not mean that they cannot run a Church. My priest was born in a family with parents and many siblings. His experience of a family is from his own family of having a mother, father, and siblings. St. Paul was single and he was able to discipline many of the Chuches he built through Christ. A person with character can rule a family (Church) very well regardless of whether they are single or married. It is a corrupt person who cannot rule very well.

Can a nun marry a priest? Seems that they are already married symbolically.

No, they cannot marry each other, and they are not married to each other symbolically. :p
 

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Just because a person is single and don't have a wife and children does not mean that they cannot run a Church. My priest was born in a family with parents and many siblings. His experience of a family is from his own family of having a mother, father, and siblings. St. Paul was single and he was able to discipline many of the Chuches he built through Christ. A person with character can rule a family (Church) very well regardless of whether they are single or married. It is a corrupt person who cannot rule very well.



No, they cannot marry each other, and they are not married to each other symbolically. :p

Thank you for expressing your point of view ( not that it changes mine) and on another note concerning your reference to Paul not being married, what do you think of Clement's opinion and does it effect your reception of his writings in general?


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Thank you for expressing your point of view ( not that it changes mine) and on another note concerning your reference to Paul not being married, what do you think of Clement's opinion and does it effect your reception of his writings in general?


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Hi Jiggyfly,

Could you be more specific regarding Clement's opinion?

Would I take parental advice from someone who has never been a parent? First of all, I am actually a single person with no kids of my own, but I do teach children and I have babysat children. I have taken teenagers on a trip to the United States for two weeks, and I am responsible for these kids 24/7 despite that I am not their mother. Parents have trusted me with their children and parents have come to me for advice despite that they know that I don't have children of my own.

My priest does not have children of his own, but he came from a very large family. He had to take care of his younger brothers and sisters while his parents were out. He knows about making milk for the baby and changing diapers. My priest gets along very well with the children in our community. In fact, after Mass, a little girl came running up to him to hug him.

Just because we are single does not mean that we know nothing about children or parenting. As a matter of fact, in my culture, it is not just the parents who raise the children. Where I am from, it is the entire extended family who helps in raising a child. This would include single people. The Chamorro people still follow the extended family system, unlike in the United States. My priest is from Ecuador. People from Asia, the Pacific region, Africa, the Middle East, and Latin America still follow this system. I am from the Pacific region. My father was Asian and my mother was a Pacific Islander.

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Hi Jiggyfly,

Could you be more specific regarding Clement's opinion?



Sorry guess I wasn't very clear, Clement believed that Paul was married and that priests (elders) have to be married once but must not be remarried.

Would I take parental advice from someone who has never been a parent? First of all, I am actually a single person with no kids of my own, but I do teach children and I have babysat children. I have taken teenagers on a trip to the United States for two weeks, and I am responsible for these kids 24/7 despite that I am not their mother. Parents have trusted me with their children and parents have come to me for advice despite that they know that I don't have children of my own.

My priest does not have children of his own, but he came from a very large family. He had to take care of his younger brothers and sisters while his parents were out. He knows about making milk for the baby and changing diapers. My priest gets along very well with the children in our community. In fact, after Mass, a little girl came running up to him to hug him.

Just because we are single does not mean that we know nothing about children or parenting. As a matter of fact, in my culture, it is not just the parents who raise the children. Where I am from, it is the entire extended family who helps in raising a child. This would include single people. The Chamorro people still follow the extended family system, unlike in the United States. My priest is from Ecuador. People from Asia, the Pacific region, Africa, the Middle East, and Latin America still follow this system. I am from the Pacific region. My father was Asian and my mother was a Pacific Islander.

In Christ,
Selene

Is it correct to assume then that you believe the scripture in 1 Tim. 3 is not literal but rather allegory?
 

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Sorry guess I wasn't very clear, Clement believed that Paul was married and that priests (elders) have to be married once but must not be remarried.

I had to google St. Clements comment and St. Paul's marriage. I think the weblink below properly explains it better. St. Paul was single like Jesus Christ.



http://books.google.com/books?id=gw9WAAAAMAAJ&pg=PA154&lpg=PA154&dq=Clement+wrote+St.+Paul+married&source=bl&ots=6uNIWGI3B1&sig=9C6c3x5908np3Doshnixqp6zbgo&hl=en&ei=FaeXTfnHDY3KiALU9OicCQ&sa=X&oi=book_result&ct=result&resnum=1&ved=0CBgQ6AEwAA#v=onepage&q=Clement%20wrote%20St.%20Paul%20married&f=false



Is it correct to assume then that you believe the scripture in 1 Tim. 3 is not literal but rather allegory?

Taking into context, 1 Timothy 3 is actually speaking about a character of a bishop should be if he desires that office.
 

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Taking into context, 1 Timothy 3 is actually speaking about a character of a bishop should be if he desires that office.



But is it literal or allegory?



I had to google St. Clements comment and St. Paul's marriage. I think the weblink below properly explains it better. St. Paul was single like Jesus Christ.



http://books.google....married&f=false

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Your post reminds me of what Jesus once said to Peter. Jesus told Peter to get behind him becausehe was thinking like a human not as God thinks,



You think God calls women who say they are called. Those women may say that, but one of thetests of, if it is God calling one, is the written Word of God.



You believe that good fruit is coming from their ministry,but it is not good fruit if it goes against what the Bible says.



Paul tells us: “Ifanyone thinks they are a prophet or otherwise gifted by the Spirit, let themacknowledge that what I am writing to you is the Lord’s command. But if anyone ignores this, theywill themselves be ignored.”



It is the Lord’s command!







(1 Corinthians 14:34-44) “Women shouldremain silent in the churches. They are not allowed to speak, but must be insubmission, as the law says. Ifthey want to inquire about something, they should ask their own husbands athome; for it is disgraceful for a woman to speak in the church. Or did the word of Godoriginate with you? Or are you the only people it has reached? If anyone thinks they are aprophet or otherwise gifted by the Spirit, let them acknowledge that what I amwriting to you is the Lord’s command. Butif anyone ignores this, they will themselves be ignored.”




What is written should never be ignored but when one uses the quote one should understand the complete teaching.....

1 Corinthians 14:34-40 Let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be under obedience as also saith the law. And if they will learn any thing, let them ask their husbands at home: for it is a shame for women to speak in the church. What? came the word of God out from you? or came it unto you only? If any man think himself to be a prophet, or spiritual, let him acknowledge that the things that I write unto you are the commandments of the Lord. But if any man be ignorant, let him be ignorant. Wherefore, brethren, covet to prophesy, and forbid not to speak with tongues. Let all things be done decently and in order.​


Paul is teaching with the use of irony. He first repeats what the "men" of the church are saying..."you woman keep silent, you're not permitted to speak! Go home and ask your husband if you want to learn anything...stupid women." (I'm paraphrasing :D ) Then Paul properly reprimands the good ol' boys down at the local synagogue with "What? do you really think God only speaks to you? What? do you really think only you are qualified to teach (as in...'it come out from you')?"


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