Why are we plagued with so many dogmatic certainties and religious opinions?
What many people call
faith or belief is approached in an absolutist fashion.
This is a house of cards that will in most cases leave someone trying to pick up the pieces once it collapses.
When I say that
"I believe"... people do not know what I mean by this. Belief is a broad term in that it means different things.
Certitudes are
beliefs that one bases their existence on, and would willingly die rather than deny it. It is utterly crushing to have a
Certitude destroyed or proven untrue. I would include in this the reality of God, the saving atonement of Christ, the Deity of Christ.
Faith/Belief is something you embrace as true, and your life reflects it. You make life changes based upon them. If you are proven wrong, it is deeply troubling and requires that many things we believe and do, may be affected by it because that doctrine touches other ones we believe. These would be my view of atonement, baptism, communion, and whether an airplane that weighs more than my house can take me in the air safely to another destination.
Opinions are
beliefs that we may or may not change the way we live based upon them, but we are willing to fight for them. If we are proven wrong, we are not crushed, but perhaps disappointed. Perhaps we are embarrassed and humbled, but most people just make adjustments in their minds if proven wrong. I have an opinion what time Church should start, or whether we should really call it "Church." If I am proven wrong, I will change my opinion, but it does not deeply touch me or what else I believe.
Fancies or
Larks are
beliefs that people have that we know may or may not be true, but we like them anyway. Whether there is a pot of gold at the end of a rainbow, few will argue with you if you say it. It does not matter if it is not true, you never base how you live on a
fancy.
The problem is... many cannot tell the difference! Some people place
all their beliefs on the level of a
certitude or
faith/belief level. This sets us up for a tremendous failure! An example of this is when I taught this in adult Sunday School. I was giving the example of the
fancy that it was pleasant to believe that angles are children that died and went to heaven, and that they were flying around with wings, and their little bottoms were exposed as their cloth flapped in the wind. Unknown to me was someone present that could not make the distinctions about the level of belief, and was utterly crushed when I made light of that belief and claimed it was just a
fancy. She never came to Sunday School again (which indicates that she held this doctrine of baby-angles to be a
faith/belief or a
certitude/ it affected her life and how she lived.) Soon after, she stopped coming to Church.
Another example was a Seminary student that was King James Only in belief. One of their professors challenged that and exposed evidence to the contrary. This evidence crushed this individual, and they dropped out of seminary and forsook the faith. I said to the person who lamented this that his friend did not have faith in Christ, but the King James Bible. That Bible Worship is not faith in Christ. He was offended at that observation and strongly disagreed. I personally have had some
faith/beliefs, and a
certitude that I based my life around that had been proven wrong, and I was crushed. It was devastating! Yet my faith was on Christ, not these doctrines that I elevated to such a high level of importance. Painfully, I regrouped, reevaluated, and made adjustments, and learned that not everything has to be on the same level. Blessings.